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    2champ2 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default texting advice, where to go from here

    Ok so I got this HB8's number a last Thursday and I was obviously pretty excited about that considering I am so new and bad with this stuff. I met her at the bar and we talked for a while and everything went well, if you need more specific info about the interaction, I have a field report on it. Anyway I get her number and about 45 minutes later text her "hey, this is champ, that really awesome guy you just met at the bar, this is now the most important number in your phone " to which she replied about 15 minutes later "haha well played". So I waited for a few days before texting her again and the conversation (or lack there of lol) goes like this. (also I was out with friends and buzzed pretty good when she finally texted me back around 9:30 so that didn't help my cause)

    me 12:18pm: Hey there missy
    hb8 9:26pm: Heyyy
    me 10:32pm: Hey I had a really important, serious and intellectual question to ask you.
    hb8 11:03: Ok what is it lol?
    me 11:13: Well I have to think about it for a minute now, it was a while ago and now I forgot!
    me 1130: Ok I remember now are you still there?

    and that was that. I haven't heard from her since, I was planning on waiting a few days before texting her again. Looking back I probably shouldn't have even answered her since she made me wait allll day but since its early on I thought it would be very important to get a convo going. So should I wait a few days, text her now, or did I blow it already lol? This girl is really cool, I really enjoyed talking with her so I do want to salvage my mistakes here if possible.

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    Default Re: texting advice, where to go from here

    why would you ask me 1130: Ok I remember now are you still there?
    instead of asking if she's still there, it's not like you were having a phone call with her :/

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    Default Re: texting advice, where to go from here

    She was attracted, so you must've done something right.

    It sounds like you are becoming a little infatuated and not being your real self any more. Just try to get back in the Mindset you were when you met her, and text her from that.

    The mindset of needing others' help to talk to her isn't what got you the Number Close in the first place.

    Basically, if I were in this situation I would probably call her next in a day or two. Don't even talk about what happened unless she brings it up, then be like "Ya I forgot, already got it answered so no worries..." Later in the convo I would bring up us hanging out, "Ya I could just imagine if you and I did that... (whatever we were talking about)." Back to fun talk. Then say I g2g, without asking for a D2 or anything.

    Bring the comfort back. Then take it from there to a D2 some time very soon.

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    Default Re: texting advice, where to go from here

    Hyp I have no idea why I said that I was a little drunk and saw that the next day and I wondered the same thing lol. Puaoneday its not so much that I'm not being myself, its me trying to not say the typical AFC stuff that has gotten me no where in the past I think.

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    Default Re: texting advice, where to go from here

    Sounds like you had a solid Number Close, so the main problem was your text thread. Personally, I see a few... "errors".

    You start with "Hey there missy". I cute nick name, but honestly, you might as well have just text her "Hey", which isn't setting you apart or making you look interesting. Sure she took all day to text you back, but with a "Hey" text, what's her urgency?

    You say "I had" in the second text which brings attention to her lack of immediate response (little things like that speak on a subconscious level). You also were going to ask her a question... like every other guy. Again, lack of being different. If a woman wanted to be asked questions, she would go to a job interview.

    Lastly, you forgot what you were going to ask her and you also double text her... NEVER DOUBLE TEXT.

    To me, it seems like she was bored with the thread. Try texting her in a day or two with something that she'll want to text back to. Put yourself in her shoes!
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    Default Re: texting advice, where to go from here

    I've never tried this one, but I have read about it.

    "The fake pocket dial". Get in a car, drive, get in a good head space, play some music that gets you feeling good, start singing, and imagining your a rock star. When you hit that life is farking awesome zone. Put on a "pop" song, something that everyone knows, start singing along to it. Here is where it gets good. Dial the chicks number, put your phone and the seat beside you, let it ring through, but just keep driving and singing.

    1) she will answer and hear you and be like "what the fark"
    2) it will go to voice mail and it will get recorded.

    Either way, keep singing with the music, but keep it in a good spirit, don't pick a death metal song, pick like, something funny, Rick Ashley "Never Gonna Let You Go..." Sing for maybe a minute. Then just hang the phone up. Don't say anything, just sing.

    Wait a day or two. If she calls/texts you about it, play it off like you don't know what she is talking about. Then tell her, "Honestly, I'm the king of pocket dials, I need to get a new phone." Then change the subject and ask her out.

    If you don't hear from her, you have 2 options, text/call her telling her your phone says that you called her, but don't remember talking to her. If she responds, make light of it and get her on the phone and ask her out.

    If she doesn't respond, delete her number and move on.

    Give it a shot. Keep us updated.

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    Default Re: texting advice, where to go from here

    When she gives you "Ok what is it lol?" ask her the question ( I am assuming you had one) , the hestitating thing was boring


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