Hello guys, it's been a while since I've sought your help... I'd been doing pretty good so far, developing my inner game. Although, something happened and I don't know how to deal with it.
I met this girl (HB9) around a week and a half ago. Everything went nicely, I got her number, K-closed. We kept contact and then we went out for coffe (she practically asked me out). It went nicely, I noticed she wanted to talk a lot and find about me, so I didn't try to be very intimate with her, although there was some touching.. I then took her home and right before she left, she kissed me. I was happy because even though things weren't going fast (which is also a plus), we both seemed very interested in each other. Then, when I was going home, she called me and asked if I could call her when I got home. I did just that and she told me:
"I understand if you want stop talking to me, I would be sad if that happened, but I would understand. I supposedly have a boyfriend... I'm sorry I had to tell you like this, but you're too god for me to just continue lying to you".
Well, I was surprised to say the least. But I kept my cool and said I wouldn't stop talking with her. After that, she explained that she didn't love him the same way. She's been in that relationship for 5 years and things just don't work out anymore. I took a step back and said something along the lines of: "I will give you time to sort out your life, but there will be no physical contact because cheating is against my principles and something I could never forgive". Yesterday, I took her to one of my favorite places and I have to be honest, it was HARD having her there with me and not just kiss her madly. She put her hand on my leg, started to caress it, and after that I just pushed her back to my chest and gave her a hug. We were in that position for minutes and we started looking at each other while triangulating. You're going to call me a wuss now, but after some time, I just said "We have to stop, I'll take you home" and that's what I did. I kept faithful to my own words..
Could you please give me some advice on how to proceed? I'm being careful but we both like each other...
Have you gone through something similar in the past?