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    Default Need a better response.

    So, when I ask a girl where are you from? And they reply Russia this is my current response :

    Ahhh, Russia the place where people put rugs on their walls. That's cool. I don't understand why y'all do that the only things I can come up with is that when you get a hangover you roll up in the rug like a cocoon and start
    hibernating. Or perhaps y'all are too dirt poor to afford a painting so you just put a rug there.

    It's pretty good; but as the title says I could use a better one.

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    Default Re: Need a better response.

    The best way to deal with that is to NOT ask "Where ya from?"


    Also stay away from "What do you do?" "Come here often?" "Are you in school / where do you go to school / where do you work?" etc...

    Those are job-interview style questions & will bore a girl to death.
    You need to create mystery & attraction...

    That said, I generally don't ask a girl questions of any kind early on. (Save that for rapport)

    Just be fun & flirty! Be silly.. make her laugh / smile.
    Make her have fun by showing her you're a fun guy.

    That will make her want to know more about you & build interest on her end.



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    Default Re: Need a better response.

    How is that working for you? I am going to guess not very well.

    Next time someone says they are from Russia say, " Isn't that a cold place where people have a lot of sex just to stay warm?" Say it with a cf attitude and end it with a wink.

    Then calibrate from there. Usually you will get a laugh and you can escalate from there. If you don't get a laugh ( which will be rare) then you can just ask her to tell you about Russia.

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    Default Re: Need a better response.

    Thank you both for myriad of tips and, Henceforth I will not be asking any "Job interview questions" As apparently it is detrimental to my game. But inevitably I'm going to learn that she is from Russia, Ipso facto; I just wanted a good statement to say. Hypothetically speaking I could recreate this thread I would've worded it a lot better but it's a fait accompli now.

    Dave, I'll try that line out, but truth be told I don't think it's much better than what I have up, however; it will be an improvement nevertheless.

    I was looking for something like this but just an Russian version.

    Me : Oh wow. Love your accent. Lemme guess, youíre from China

    Her :Haha, no I'm from Santa Barbara.


    Me : No shit! I like... Totally thought that youíre from like Arkansas or something! Itís those eyes! And I was expecting some southern biscuits from you... Wait... Do they have good southern biscuits in Santa Barbara?


    Anyways I'm new to this, I'm training very hard my I may not at the level I want to be but I am learning something new everyday! I reckon the road isn't going to be easy but perseverance and dedication will prevail. In a year from now I will look by at this thread and laugh.

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    Default Re: Need a better response.

    You need to avoid coming up with replies you think will attract her. Say whatever the fark you want about russia when she tells you. Dont see her approval.
    What you need will not come quickly. WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS WHAT YOU FEAR. Take comfort that what you seek is there. But you will NEVER have it if you keep being a p$ssy.


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