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Thread: Looking for your best push/pull texting techniques

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    Default Looking for your best push/pull texting techniques

    Hey guys, I'm trying to find some of the best or at least reliable Push Pull techniques that can be used texting. Ive read through the guides (and they are awesome) but I was wondering what methods have been really good at keeping them guessing etc.

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    Default Re: Looking for your best push/pull texting techniques

    1. Be spontaneous with your texting time (5 minutes, 20 minutes, 2 hours, whatever)
    2. Keep the conversations short and interesting. End it on a high and leave her wanting more.
    3. Give her mixed signals. One moment, flirt with her like crazy. Then the next moment, drop an Indicator Of Disinterest (Telling her she is like a sister to you, for example)


    These things are well more than good enough for creating push and pull in a texting situation.
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    Default Re: Looking for your best push/pull texting techniques

    Damnit, great tips. just wish I had them a few days ago. haha.

    What do you normally do if they try and 'get to know you' over text. enter long convos blah blah.

    Do you just blow them off and set up the date or what

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    Default Re: Looking for your best push/pull texting techniques

    Personally, I don't mind having long conversations via text...it builds rapport and comfort. I also like having time to design my responses. Keep the texts the same length or shorter than hers. I've found I can get a girl so comfortable by texting that fclosing on first dates requires less gaming.

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    Default Re: Looking for your best push/pull texting techniques

    Quote Originally Posted by -Ninja- View Post
    Personally, I don't mind having long conversations via text...it builds rapport and comfort. I also like having time to design my responses. Keep the texts the same length or shorter than hers. I've found I can get a girl so comfortable by texting that fclosing on first dates requires less gaming.
    Problem with that Ninja is that too much rapport can be a bad thing. Think about it like this:

    You have a bag of your favorite brand of potato chips. This batch just so happens to be the best tasting potato chips you have ever had. Not even receiving the holy grail will make you want to give up this bag. Now, you have two options here. Either you can submit to your craving and devour the entire bag, thereby satisfying or craving, or you can pace and ration yourself, feeling like banging your head against the wall sometimes because you really want to eat that bag of potato chips.

    Conversations are the exact same way. If you let the conversation run its whole course, then she would have gotten her fill. Her craving will be gone, and there will be no immediate need for her to come back to you. On the other end, if you cut off the conversation at a high point, then it leaves you on a good note, and makes her want to come back to you, because there is more to be gained from conversing with you again.

    To answer your question sirsilver, it's alright to go into "get to know you" conversations. All you need to do is show yourself to be a man of high value and interest when telling her about yourself. Be careful, though, you don't want to get to the point where all you are doing is bragging. This is a turnoff to women, so maintain an air of modesty.
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    Default Re: Looking for your best push/pull texting techniques

    You make a good point here Swagman. I'd like to think I've kept my texting sequences interesting, even the long ones, but there have been a couple here and there that I'm guessing the girl ate the whole bag of chips. I can definitely get better at cutting things off a little sooner.

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    Default Re: Looking for your best push/pull texting techniques

    I would say using nicknames, delaying response times when you first meet her, then speeding things up, using sexual undertones but not all the time, and things like that.

    Give the girl a bit of a chase by not responding right away at first since the convo can always die pretty quickly. Don't reveal too much about yourself but be a good catch.


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