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    Default how do i get the bartender

    so ive known this bartender for about 3 years now. we almost hit it off my senior year oh high school but well i was of course a stupid high school kid. Well she messaged me 2 days ago and this is how it went
    her:sleep is the best thing EVER!!

    me: lol sleep sucks! you cant do anything!

    her: pshhh. whatever. i still try and take a nap every chance i get!!!!!

    me: well if you like sleep so much why are you up at 4 in the morning? lol

    her: bar schedule DUH!
    her: im finishing packing for my vacation and then im off to bed!

    me: how am i suppose to know your schedule! let me guess you have like 50 suitcases full of pointless things you dont need lol

    her: Negative! lol im not THAT bad of a packer! i did pack like 20 swim suits... but besides that i did great! lol

    me: haha i like how you added in there 20 swim suits lol how many days are you gonna be there?

    her: only a week.. so i have to change swimsuits every few hours! ha!

    me: oh gosh lol horrible packer!! id hate to go on vacation with you. 3 times a day you would go change to a different swim suit lol

    her: and thats a bad thing? Negative?

    me: well how is it a good thing? lol positie!

    her: because i have lots of sexy swimsuits! wouldnt you want to see them all? duh lol

    me: uh no lol id find a nude beach so actually you wouldnt need them

    her: hahahaha no way man. dont want everyone seeing me naked! lol

    me: lol well with a swim suit you are only like 20 percent covered up anyway. might as well just let loose!

    her: hahahaha would you go completely naked in front of tons of people?

    me: yea what is the worst that could happen? if anything id get compliments lol

    her: hahahaha

    me: im guessing you wouldnt go around naked?

    no response which is fine she is on her vacation. i just want to know how to real her in. she is very attractive not to mention she could be my own personal bartender!
    im on a different level

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    Default Re: how do i get the bartender

    First off, that interaction was fine except that you used lol and haha WAY too much. Tone it down. She should be the giddy one, not you.

    Otherwise, game her the same way you would anyone else. She's clearly attracted to you, so just go with it.
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    Default Re: how do i get the bartender

    yea i try the technique where you kinda copy her when you write back. but you are right i need to tone it down just a bit. any tips on asking for the number or when to message her again? i was thinking when she gets back from vacation.
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    Default Re: how do i get the bartender

    Yea, I'm not great with facebook game, but I'd wait until she's back. Since you know her already, you can kind of skip the comfort stage a bit, so I'd try to plan a date and then get her number, but make it natural. For instance:

    You: "You like sushi?"
    Her: "Yea"
    You: "I'm going to grab some at this place that makes great California rolls tomorrow around 8:00pm. You should come with and try it out."
    Her: "That'd be great."
    You: "Awesome. What's your number, I'll text you the name of the place."

    Just something like that, where it seems natural for her to give her your number.
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    Default Re: how do i get the bartender

    yea that seems ok i guess. any other ideas? i just want to see what everyone says and make the best decision from that
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    Default Re: how do i get the bartender

    ok so i tried to neg her and she didnt respond. i said hey tan lines how was your vacation? i thought it seemed light and funny plus showed interest. what should i do now?
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    Default Re: how do i get the bartender

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    ok so i tried to neg her and she didnt respond. i said hey tan lines how was your vacation? i thought it seemed light and funny plus showed interest. what should i do now?
    freeze her out for a few days? else you might come across as needy?

    She might as well be really busy, normally when people get back from holiday are sucked in to work school etc to catch up with all the stuffed that they missed
    English is my second language

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    Default Re: how do i get the bartender

    yea i havent talked to her for about a week now and she did just like my status lol ill message her again. what do you guys think i should say?
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    Default Re: how do i get the bartender

    Quote Originally Posted by Hopeful33 View Post
    yea i havent talked to her for about a week now and she did just like my status lol ill message her again. what do you guys think i should say?

    Ask her out. Come up with a plan and ask her out that is what you should say next at least as far as I am concerned. But if you want to keep messaging back and forth then I would try and just be yourself and try complimenting her. Too much teasing can hinder your progress here. I am being strait up with women lately when messaging them and getting a lot farther than I ever could have hoped with all the teasing.

    If want to flirt with her why not just compliment her about something you said yourself.

    "Hey nickname, it would be really nice if you could be my own personal Bartender. " Then maybe say something about your favorite drink.

    I used to have a huge thing for Bartenders but after the last 2 played me I have kinda gotten over them, the whole unattainble vibe you know, so turned on by it and now so over it (hitting on Bartenders that is, unless I see like a perfect 10 I ain't doing squat with them, they play hard, like really hard). I guess it's true what they say about Beer Googles since I seen these Bartenders as HB9's then when I saw their FB I was like whoa 8 and 7. Guess I didn't have my Beer Googles on that time. Also they dress super skimpy but their FB you see them through all those normal moments and not as appealing I guess.


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