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    Trickstesssr69 is offline Banned
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    Default Best Follow Up Message for POF

    After creating a female profile it became obvious that your message can easily slip to page 2 and never been seen.

    So for POF here are my questions;

    1. If I get no response from my first message how long should I wait to send a follow up message and what's a good example of one?

    2. If I get a response from my first message but none from the second what kind of follow up message should I send?

    I usually wait till there online for 5 mins and then send the message so it's on top, but still I'd like to know the answers. Most guys are going to tell me to move on but in the past my persistence has payed off and have f-closed and gotten relationships after sending up to 2 follow ups with no reply until the 3rd. But this does not happen often but was worth it. I'd like it to happen more often and looking forward to hearing what the experts have to say.

    For example, I just sent this silly opener questions to this girl. She attempted to answer. My second response was that she needs to earn the answer by sending a pic of her having fun. Got the pic, hot 23 old. Sent another message and now nothing for 2 days.

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    Default Re: Best Follow Up Message for POF

    I know what you mean, normally if a girl doesn't bother responding to my first message I don't bother continuing...

    My advice would be to only ever message once. Why? Well having a second/ third message come up lowers your value.

    Delete your account and start a fresh one every few months. That way you can catch the ones you missed and they won't remember that you've messaged them before.

    One girl even read my profile and called me an arrogant jerk. 3 months later, shot her the same opening message with the same profile and secured a date.

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    Default Re: Best Follow Up Message for POF

    really, that's my option. Crap. Well instead of deleting my profile I could just change my nickname. I mean the POF messages delete themselves after a month anyways. I find it hard to believe that they would forget after 3 months. I figured the memory of seeing the same pictures again would remind them. Unless you're talking about completely redoing the entire profile with new pics?

    Does anyone else have experience with doing follow up emails?

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    Default Re: Best Follow Up Message for POF

    no need to re-do the entire thing! Just copy everything across to a new profile. I think pof users will always be able to see that you've messaged before if you use the same profile.

    Re-doing it takes like 5 minutes it's easy


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