After creating a female profile it became obvious that your message can easily slip to page 2 and never been seen.
So for POF here are my questions;
1. If I get no response from my first message how long should I wait to send a follow up message and what's a good example of one?
2. If I get a response from my first message but none from the second what kind of follow up message should I send?
I usually wait till there online for 5 mins and then send the message so it's on top, but still I'd like to know the answers. Most guys are going to tell me to move on but in the past my persistence has payed off and have f-closed and gotten relationships after sending up to 2 follow ups with no reply until the 3rd. But this does not happen often but was worth it. I'd like it to happen more often and looking forward to hearing what the experts have to say.
For example, I just sent this silly opener questions to this girl. She attempted to answer. My second response was that she needs to earn the answer by sending a pic of her having fun. Got the pic, hot 23 old. Sent another message and now nothing for 2 days.