I wanna share this little FB opener I have used a few times, it is an easy way to get a conversation going:
1. Poke her.
2. If she pokes back, PM her and say "ah why did you poke me "
3. She will usually get playfully defensive, then start a conversation
This has worked well for me, but it's tough to setup a REAL meetup after doing this however, seeing as the relationship is purely digital.