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    Default Re: lilsting's foray into online dating

    Quote Originally Posted by dave_xxx View Post
    Nice!

    How much time per day are you investing in the online game?

    I haven't done online yet so I am debating if the return is worth the time invested compared to day game or night game.
    Honestly speaking, so far the return hasn't been worth it. I've had POF for 11-12 days and on couple of those days I sarged pretty damn hard. I'm talking like 3-4 hours. Apparently new users can only send 40 messages a day, so I believe a shit ton of my messages weren't being sent. Considering this is my 1st Number Close and I've put in easily over 10 hours, it hasn't been worth it. I could easily pull somewhere around 50 numbers in that time just day gaming. To be fair though, my first 3-4 days I had a shitty profile and only 2 pics. I started seeing better results when I had uploaded 7 pics along with a revamped profile.

    I would say give it a go. Just make sure you have a solid profile with good pictures from the jump and you'll do just fine. Don't be like me. Look at it as something to do on the side. Don't fully invest in it where it takes away from day game and night game. There's no rush in online game

    Protip: Open every girl you find attractive in a new tab. That way even if you don't message them right then and there, you're building a catalog of attractive women to open. I have like 20 tabs open. Whenever I feel like it I open like 1 or 2 girls, and then go back to doing whatever I was doing before.

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    Default Re: lilsting's foray into online dating

    Update: I have about 25 conversations currently taking place on POF. The last time I responded to a message was almost a week ago (last friday). I randomly got tired of POF and sarged the world for like 4 days straight. I'm sure time is not an issue, but I just haven't been in the mood to continue on any of the conversations. I don't know why either. I'll probably start messaging all those girls again tomorrow like I just didn't disappear for a week. Just thought I'd update you guys.

    Also, with the Number Close I got, I texted her once and never texted her again. Again, I don't know why. I think I've just been having so much fun not giving a fark while sarging that I've temporarily lost interest in POF. I've been opening all kinds of sets recently. Mom's and daughters, father's and daughter's, 4-6 sets, pretty much anything you can think of.

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    Default Re: lilsting's foray into online dating

    Honestly for me, POF was a goldmine.

    I feel like your profile and that conversation you had were a bit over the top. My profile and conversations are still similar to yours but definitely toned down a bit. I felt that you might make yourself seem like a bit of a try-hard dorky geek but not in the good way (no offence).

    Highlights of my profile were my name (SigmundPicklemore - I'll explain later) and the first few lines of my 'about' section

    "Hi! Just a really nice and easy going young guy. I like long walks on the beach, baby sloths and collecting garden gnomes. I once caught a shark with my bare hands - no lie!

    You can maybe tell that I don't take myself, or anything, too seriously but I'm a pretty honest dude just here to have a great life filled with great people."

    I then added a little bit more of the serious stuff that I did like junior baseball coach and teacher, but still kept it pretty light-hearted.

    When it asks 'who am I looking for?", I wrote:

    "I'm looking for my long lost twin sister - I know you're out there; where'd you put the TV remote?
    Not really looking for anyone in particular though, and if you're looking for me, STOP! You just found me."

    Girls obviously want to see a funny guy but also know that he's not just some try hard nob. Hence I'd start with a bit of humour but then talk about actual stuff that's about me.

    I just had two simple photos of me when I travelled to NY and LA, which were consistent with my interests.

    When it came to starting a conversation, I'd just scope out their 'about' section and try to find a commonality, or, if they said something like "guys name gymguy69 or sexyboi4U needn't bother trying to talk me", I'd just be like "Totally understand you'd be over those two guys, they sounds way too cool for school. How does simple old Sigmund Picklemore sit with you?" Chicks literally would not shut up about how good they thought my name was, after a while I'd eventually tell them my real name when I got there number but a lot of them were still like "that's a nice name but I'm nicknaming you Pickles in my phone haha" I didn't care, as long as when she saw a message from Pickles she'd smile and be a lot more keen to talk to me. Similar to girls that would be like "if you can't tell the difference between there, they're and their, I'm not interested", I'd always say it's my lifetime goal as an English teacher to solve this global disaster. Also, and this was a golden rule, I'd always comment on their 'about' section for the majority of my message, and then finish by saying "Oh and then I looked at you're photos and you're actually kind of cute too " They want that affirmation on their looks just as much as what they're about but don't be the same old dude that's like "Hey sexy, you're hot!". Comments on their photos should be minimal.

    N-closing was so freaking easy too. After I'd built rapport with them in a few message exchanges (alot of them would have now said "I think you're really funny" which was my GO sentence). I'd just say "So I've got to be going. I'm actually having a great time talking to you, I think you're really cool. How about I get your number so we can keep talking " This worked 100% of the time and you could always text them straight away by continuing the conversation you were just having.

    You're probably thinking, 'did this work though?'. Well I opened my profile on Tuesday (with absolutely zero experience) and was only on it for like 48 hours. I had in excess of 10-15 good conversations with HB8+ chicks. I'd N-closed 5 (with many more that would've easily been done in the next messages). I just F-closed one like a few hours ago, and I'm still kicking the fires along for the other numbers I've got. It's also helping my real-life game because I've definitely not got any one-itis which I actually had for one chick right up until Tuesday (now she's popping her head up too).

    However, for some reason, wether one of the girls I wasn't really interested in got sh1tty that I wasn't responding frequently and reported me or there was some admin error, my account has been blocked. I'm not too worried because I've already filled my pockets to keep me busy and I might just try again next week.

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    Default Re: lilsting's foray into online dating

    Very nice write up, but you misunderstand me though. I'm not having any trouble with POF. It was actually going really well. I just lost interest for some random reason. Also, I updated my profile a long time ago. I just haven't posted it on here. I said that in one of my earlier posts. I'm glad you're having a ton of success though. Keep it up man! Your POF name really is full of win.

    Also, the convo was slightly over the top, but I'm sure it was different then any other convo she's ever had on POF which is what you want to do. I had a canned opener which made her laugh, followed by an over-exaggeration supporting said canned opener which made her laugh even more, followed by a cold read which made her laugh even more. For someone as lazy as me, I couldn't ask for anything more. Especially since I've been to lazy to use anything other than the canned opener.


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