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    Default lilsting's foray into online dating

    I just made my first online dating account, and it so happens to be with POF. I don't know if my profile is any good or not, but here it is. I didn't look at any samples or anything (which I probably should have), and I created it in like 15 minutes

    Profile Name: Lonnius

    Headline: So far ahead, I end up in last place

    Interests: Egg roll making, chip and dale dancing, no arm pushups, and whale wrestling

    About me: By day I work. By night I'm a superhero. When it get's really late though, I secretly try to take over the world. When a few extra minutes do end up thrusting them self my way, I typically end up using them doing things I really enjoy; dancing, boxing, mixed martial arts, ping pong, along with the typical chip and dale dancing every now and again. Do I have abs? No. But I can shake what my momma gave me pretty damn well .. I'm a strong believer in leading a life that I'll never regret, and I'm always in pursuit of something more. Something deeper than the superficial lives a lot of people end up living. At the end of the day, fun is the name of this game. The question is are you ready?

    First Date: My recipe for first date success is a little ooomfff, with a kick of ahhhhhhhh, and side helping of spontaneity.


    Overall I was trying to be different from your typical profile. It probably comes off as stupid, but I don't give a sh1t. Feedback would be nice though. I also posted up 3 pics. One of myself in Jamaica, one with me and 2 girls, and one with a buddy of mine.

    Quick update: I sent out 30 messages in like 20 minutes. I'll update when I get back from work

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    Default Re: lilsting's foray into online dating

    Update: This is an update 4 days after making my profile. I've been completely turned off to this online thing. I've sent probably around 70-80 messages in total, and have only gotten 3 responses. 2 of which have turned into ongoing conversations. That's besides the point though. It takes wayyy to much time to write a message that's catered to each girls profile. About half of the messages I sent were just spam openers using the opener from here http://www.puaforums.com/online-dati...lose-gold.html

    To make matters worse all of my replies have been from the spam openers. I haven't gotten a single response when I cater a message to their profile. I'm by no means an ugly guy either, and I have some good pics up. I'm guessing my profile probably sucks. So what does this all mean? I probably just suck at the whole online thing, but I'm taking several steps back. I'll probably only send out a couple of messages a week instead of sarging. I'll stick to my specialty (daygaming).

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    Default Re: lilsting's foray into online dating

    Your profile is a little too try-hard, just tone it down a little.

    Also stop using canned openers. If you must go down the route of mindless openers then at very least create a template and just drop relevant key words in when you copy and paste it.

    Lastly create a fake girl profile to see the kind of messages they get. You will be stunned!

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    Default Re: lilsting's foray into online dating

    The thing is, I only got responses from the canned openers. I got 0 responses when I was trying to create profile specific messages. That does sound pretty interesting though. Creating a fake profile. hahaha I bet they get some really creepy shit LMAO.

    Duly noted. I'll tone down my profile sometime today, and post the updated version.

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    Default Re: lilsting's foray into online dating

    Seriously, you should drop a lot of the "take over the world" and "being a superhero" stuff, or move it to the end. You start with it, so then when you talk about the real cool stuff you are doing, we have no idea whether you're still joking or not.

    Also, your first date could be better, that's where you make them dream, or bring some mystery. I would go with "Coffee. Unless I'm sure you're not a creep, then we will do something fun instead" or something like that
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.

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    Default Re: lilsting's foray into online dating

    UPDATE: It's been 10 days since I've entered into the online dating realm via POF. Ignoring what I said in a previous message, I continued to sarge my area. So far this has led to exactly 30 conversations, but only maybe 5-6 seem to be getting somewhere. I also made an Okcupid account I think like 5 days ago. It seems like the majority of all the girls on that website in my area are pretty unattractive. There are a couple here and there, but I haven't sent out to many messages. I have 3 conversations going on, on that website with only 1 seeming like it may go somewhere. All in all, I still have not number closed, but I feel like a couple are coming up soon. I've gotten opened up twice so far on POF. One was a HB 0-1, the other an HB 5-6.

    I feel like I've sarged out my area so now it's time to take a breather. I've tried various approaches in my openings, but found the best results from a canned opener and just sarging. Plus you save a lot of time this way. Also, I changed my about me section which has had some good results so far too. A couple of girls have qualified themselves to me based on stuff in that section. I can't take credit for it though. I copied and pasted it from another thread on this forum, although the profile does apply to me.

    Even if I don't get anywhere, I'm satisfied. Chatting all these girls up has given me plenty of opportunity to work on my text game. Unfortunately, sarging online has taken away real life sarge time, so I haven't made an approach in almost a week. That will resume shortly though.

    I'll probably update again when I finally get a Number Close, and I'll post some of the various conversations I had.

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    Default Re: lilsting's foray into online dating

    I'm planning on writing an article about OKC soon, as to what each section should be used for

    But even if you don't close many numbers, having several girls chatting you is a great way of keeping good confidence every day
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.

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    Default Re: lilsting's foray into online dating

    Yes sir!! I'm looking forward to it. I just got my 1st Number Close. I'll post the convo up tomorrow morning when I arise from my slumber.

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    Default Re: lilsting's foray into online dating

    1st Number Close conversation with some slight commentary

    Me: Hey, do you earn a lot? 'cause I need a woman to support me while I'm on the couch playing Call of duty in my underwear all day (Standard canned opener that I got from another thread)

    Her: Lol!

    Me: Seriously! I also need someone to tie my shoes, wipe my ass, feed me grapes, brush my teeth, give me back rubs, speak 7 different languages, a pro athlete, a stay at home mom, a super hero, etc. The last time I did anything for myself I was back in 1st grade. If you can do these for me, I promise to leave the toilet seat down

    Her: Lol no :]

    Me: How dare you be so selfish! ..I bet if I was starving on the side of the road, you'd tease me with food and then laugh hysterically.

    Her: Okay that would be funny but I'm not mean like that

    Me: I like how my misfortunes bring you happiness haha. What a jerk! I'm Lonnie btw. (I was testing her interest here. Her introducing herself back is a good sign)

    Her: Lol I would give u food. I'm Dani. Soo arebu joking around lol idk if ur serious

    Her: Lol I would give u food. I'm Dani. Soo arebu joking around lol idk if ur serious

    Me: At ease soldier. I'm only screwing with you lol. What kind of havock are you wrecking on the world tonight?

    Her: Lol what kind of what?

    Me: It was just a fancy way of asking what's up. Tsk tsk tsk. I like your shades in the last picture. Kinda makes you look like an 80's hipster

    Her: Lol which one with my sunglasses?

    Me: The one where it looks like might have a badass jean jacket on, and slight cheeky smile. It's cute.

    Her: Haha well thank you. So why are u rly on here (Once I saw she asked me this question, I knew it was time to move toward the number close.)

    Me: People are interesting. It's fun meeting random new people. I'm a sociable guy so I was just like hey, why not try this online thing. What about you? You can't give the same answer I did

    Her: Lol to meet new and interesting people like yourself. I know I can't say the same thing but it's true (Big ioi right there so I decided to no longer post pone the convo and just seal the deal.)

    Me: lol cheater! I just got back from the Dr. earlier .. He said I have only 3 options for my text addiction:
    1) Sell cell phone
    2) Cut off fingers
    3) text a cute girl

    I'm not selling my phone anytime soon, and I'm pretty sure I need my fingers. Please tell me you text! (Got this number close from another thread. I am not taking credit for it.)

    Her: Lmaoo!!! Oh that was good. 8**-***-****

    Me: I'm heading to sleep, but I'll text to you tomorrow so you have my number.

    Her: Okay night

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    Default Re: lilsting's foray into online dating

    Nice!

    How much time per day are you investing in the online game?

    I haven't done online yet so I am debating if the return is worth the time invested compared to day game or night game.


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