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    Default Actually surprised by her text - what would you reply

    This is going to be simple. One of the girls I'm gaming texted me something I was not expecting at all. We were supposed to go get drinks, but I cancelled because I had other stuff to do.

    Me: "I know we haven't got a drink together in a long time, hope it's not tooooo difficult for you "
    Her: "I know... french guy rejected me... I got hurt... stay safe, hope to see u soon "

    Yeah, I'm french, and she always call me her french guy. Anyway, it sounds like a huge dlv for her, dhv for me, so it was really unexpected. I replied something like "Oh, I guess I don't know this french guy, seems I have different tastes than him " a bit awkward, but that will do.

    So here is the thing. This is a new thing, and I want to be more prepared the next time it happens.

    What would you have replied?
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    Default Re: Actually surprised by her text - what would you reply

    I would have said something like this " you can't blame him, you was probably showing some signs of disinterest". That would have actually made her think about it and make her demostrate herself to you
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    Default Re: Actually surprised by her text - what would you reply

    Say, "Hey what can I say? Frenchy had to cancel because he is in demand. Next time you get a chance at Frenchy just hang on tight cause it's going to be amazing."

    A bit a humor there , some dhv and confidence.

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    Default Re: Actually surprised by her text - what would you reply

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    I would have said something like this " you can't blame him, you was probably showing some signs of disinterest". That would have actually made her think about it and make her demostrate herself to you
    No, that would actually show that he'd be butt hurted.

    dave_xxx answer is better. I'd cut off the "next time..." part.

    Otherwise, you can reply "Hey, what can I say? The french guy got himself in a battle with some croissants! "

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    Default Re: Actually surprised by her text - what would you reply

    "Nothing a little comfort food can't fix, you bring the syrup i'll bring the crepes "

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    Default Re: Actually surprised by her text - what would you reply

    the above are all fine, even Marvilos would pass

    did she end up replying?

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    Default Re: Actually surprised by her text - what would you reply

    Oh, I guess I don't know this french guy, seems I have different tastes than him
    Dude kinda fucked it up.are you implying you were slightly jealous.
    this may be a way of telling you she liked you and paying you back for rejecting her.i don't think that a girl may tell you directly a guy rejected her she may hint at it but to call him french guy it may have been you.


    rewind immediately or she may shit test you down the line.
    sometimes one thing you say can change the whole dynamic of the relationship without both of you knowing.Think action,subtle reaction.

    "well i take the french comment back.."
    this would clean state and i see you like this one so don't mess with the dynamic.dynamos determine your status and who controls the relationship.taking charge means you are leading and thats dominant.

    whatever you decide to send make sure you do this one first then send any other message after hours l8r.

    One thing is you are in the middle of the pua and almost boyfriend zone.this is nothing to be excited about but am thinking have you kiss her.thing closing if you haven't.

    what some people don't realize sometimes is attraction gets you one thing,then there this other thing you must do to keep it going.i simply see it as bridges.one must never let the line go slack

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    Default Re: Actually surprised by her text - what would you reply

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    i don't think that a girl may tell you directly a guy rejected her she may hint at it but to call him french guy it may have been you.
    Dude, that was the joke Of course she was talking about me

    But no, I won't take it back. It was pretty bad, agreed - too much "i think" and "I guess", and going against her flow - but you should never take back something you said, that's very dlv / AFC. I don't really care, as she's just one of my current targets, so if it messes up a bit, well, I'll just go with it. But taking it back would mean I overly care.

    I like dave_xxx one though, nice C/F and going with her flow
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    Default Re: Actually surprised by her text - what would you reply

    woah man had to call you on that
    Of course she was talking about me
    nope you sounded jealous from my inference which is bad. how about even if you don't like the girl pay attention to little details which wil help with your future game.

    I'll just go with it.
    In this case you may not that didn't sound like a joke that sounded like you were a bit insecure.Common you liked her and she kinda does too

    Her:
    "I know... french guy rejected me... I got hurt... stay safe, hope to see u soon "

    Mik:"Oh, I guess I don't know this french guy, seems I have different tastes than him <-- the deepened parts are the lines that i infer..
    hmm this guy may have been a little affected since he likes her which is good.but the negative energy comes off a bit too strong.There are a few pointers but yh.

    But taking it back would mean I overly care.
    Taking it back is not because you used i guess, i think the context of you comparing yourself to the guy in question makes your congruence questionable whether it was true or not.the thing with these things is the more you delay and interact the less they will work.i mean why would you tell her that now.i bet she may have not replied or her reply was not emotionally charged like her last text before that.lastly you kinda failed a Sh1t Test too.so a rewind may have helped a bit plus you running game and continuing escalation with go a long way to help, which i know you can.

    think of a rewind as a comeback or a reengage or possibly damage control.


    imagine a woman shows you she is funny and the next she shows you a side of her that is boring or you have a huge red flag like she keeps loosing things phone etc.
    how would you see her before and after .

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    Default Re: Actually surprised by her text - what would you reply

    No, but my point is when she says "french guy rejected me", she is talking about me. I know it, she knows I know, and I know she knows I know She calls me "her french guy" all the time, and I just flaked on her. So she basically says "yeah it's hard, mikalichov just rejected me", and I say "waow, this mikalichov has different tastes than me". It's not a great text, but it's not jealousy, since I'm talking about myself

    As for telling her to forget what I just said, no, it's not something that should be done. Think about it: the girl sends you a text, and the next morning she texts you "Forget what I sent you last night", how does she sound? Needy and insecure.
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.


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