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    Perez91 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Need advice on OkCupid girl

    So this girl messaged me a few days ago and we were messaging back and forth. I told her we should meet up this week for coffee and she said that she would love to but needed to check her calendar because she leaves on a trip with her mother Friday and she needs to pack etc.

    Then she sent me her number and asked me if I wanted to text her. I didn't log in until today and so I texted her asking her how her day went and then proceeding to ask her whether she had figured out when she was free.

    Her texts are very boring and short whereas her messages were long and she seemed to be interested. I don't know if she is just being difficult to meet up (i.e. doesn't want to meet up) or if she got bored or found someone else.

    Should I just wait for her to text me since I already told her what days I could meet up?

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    Default Re: Need advice on OkCupid girl

    You might have turned her off with the constant nagging of the coffee date. She said she would figure it out, so just give her the trust for now. In addition, I have come to see these interactions as a horizontal line branching off in two directions: one with a positive slope, and one with a negative slope. There are multiple branches, and where you are can mean everything when these events occur.

    I would say to stop messaging her and to go on and do something else. If she does text you back, great. If not, oh well.
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    Default Re: Need advice on OkCupid girl

    Well, have you considered that she might still, you know... be on a trip with her mother...?
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