Re: Need advice on OkCupid girl
You might have turned her off with the constant nagging of the coffee date. She said she would figure it out, so just give her the trust for now. In addition, I have come to see these interactions as a horizontal line branching off in two directions: one with a positive slope, and one with a negative slope. There are multiple branches, and where you are can mean everything when these events occur.
I would say to stop messaging her and to go on and do something else. If she does text you back, great. If not, oh well.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X