I've had what I thought were awesome profile pics on pof. from decent face shots.. to an epic picture of me in the Austrian alps on my motorcycle.. and only got messages from BBW chicks or very large chicks it was depressing.
I cant post the link here.. because I dont have 150 posts.
but just google : OK CUPID 4 BIG MYTHS
And i have a selfie of me laying on a pool chair.. showing abs.. and the pool... and NOTHING OF MY FACE.. and girls are now messaging ME first.. and responding to my emails. and apparently my profile is now 'hilarious' blah blah.. like it wasnt before? same sh1t! I dont have rock hard abs.. just little guys.. and its a work in progress... seriously read those tips from that link!!!