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    Default Girl texts back after 5 months?

    Picked up this girl that I really liked back in January. We really hit it off, but she had a boyfriend. We haven't talked since then...until several days ago. She texted me asking how I was. The first day the texting was going great then it stopped after that. Then no reply. Not for 2 days. What does this mean. What did I do wrong? Is she interested in me but playing hard to get?

    Heres a transcript of the convo.

    Me: Still feeling down?
    Her: Yeah
    I always feel like this
    Me: Think of that time this random ass guy came up to u and told u uwere cute :)
    Her: Hahaha oh gosh :)
    That was fun
    Me: Wat are you up to

    No reply...for 2 days now

    Please help!

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    Default Re: Girl texts back after 5 months?

    Quote Originally Posted by GoEasy View Post
    Picked up this girl that I really liked back in January. We really hit it off, but she had a boyfriend. We haven't talked since then...until several days ago. She texted me asking how I was. The first day the texting was going great then it stopped after that. Then no reply. Not for 2 days. What does this mean. What did I do wrong? Is she interested in me but playing hard to get?

    Heres a transcript of the convo.

    Me: Still feeling down?
    Her: Yeah
    I always feel like this
    Me: Think of that time this random ass guy came up to u and told u uwere cute
    Her: Hahaha oh gosh
    That was fun
    Me: Wat are you up to

    No reply...for 2 days now

    Please help!
    This is what an AFC would have said. You started to qualify yourself.

    When she said she was feeling down at that point you could have transitioned to: " I am going out for a couple of drinks to The XXXX Bar later and it's always a blast. Come by."

    If she says she will come by say ok I will see at 8.

    If she says she can't meet you, then you just go to that bar anyway with a buddy or alone if necessary. Get someone to snap a pic with you and a waitress ( or another girl. Then text her the pic saying how much of a great time you are having.

    She will see you as a fun guy, the pic shows social proof and it shows her that if she doesn't want to feel crappy she needs to hang out with you.

    I have used this pic/text approach and the girls will want to re-schedule a date with you. Once they do make her work a little for the date by saying your busy. Don't meet her on a Friday or a Saturday. Don't meet for dinner. Coffee, activity or drinks ONLY.

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    Default Re: Girl texts back after 5 months?

    Yeah, you basically said "Remember that time where a guy more confident than me came and tell you you were cute"?
    Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.

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    Default Re: Girl texts back after 5 months?

    Maybe you still have a chance... lol

    Wait a week, or two though. Then text her up again. I agree w Davexxx that you should do something light and casual. Don't ask if shes available. Instead invite her out for drinks or something. If she doesn't text back... Id say yall are done. Worth a try...


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