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    Default My texting strategy updated

    Hey guys here is an update on this girl who just shut me down. lilsting probably won't be happy about this cuz he said to get rid of all my numbers but hey I needed the XP.

    Met her 4 days ago, she is going back to her ex. Here's why she said she was busy all weekend then when I said maybe next weekend if you're free she got insecure then said I'm not super busy I get off work at x time. I said I was going to call you thur night to ask you out now I am not let's see what happens Sat. She didn't like that and shut me down today. Stay consistent guys I already said I would call her thur and went back on my word and that's why I lost this one. That's my last number so time to get new numbers.

    Not going back on my word is my new texting strategy. Playing hard to get back on her worked wonders and got her responding a lot I just wasn't consistent enough because I got a little stiffled there. I need to keep learning how to play hard to get back while keeping my word.

    Basically instead of saying I am not going to call her Thur night anymore I should have still done that but never brought it up again. Basically I should have said so you're not super busy well once you're with me I'll keep you busy lol you can give me a back rub then. I felt it was getting too stale with this one and that would have generated a reply most likely instead of me being all weak like that.

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    Default Re: My texting strategy updated

    Quote Originally Posted by mackdaddyjon View Post
    Hey guys here is an update on this girl who just shut me down. lilsting probably won't be happy about this cuz he said to get rid of all my numbers but hey I needed the XP.

    Met her 4 days ago, she is going back to her ex. Here's why she said she was busy all weekend then when I said maybe next weekend if you're free she got insecure then said I'm not super busy I get off work at x time. I said I was going to call you thur night to ask you out now I am not let's see what happens Sat. She didn't like that and shut me down today. Stay consistent guys I already said I would call her thur and went back on my word and that's why I lost this one. That's my last number so time to get new numbers.

    What I meant was just only follow through with the girls you think you're getting somewhere with. Forget about all the rest. Truth be told if she was super interested that one small statement wouldn't put her off back to her ex. She simply still has feelings for her ex and just wants to get back with him.

    Question. Did you actually say "I was going to call you Thurs night to ask you out now I am not let's see what happens Sat"

    Another thing. Stay away from statements such as "next weekend if you're free." Weekends are a time when people are "suppose" to have plans. You don't want to convey that you have nothing going on by making yourself too available. You should have pushed for something during the week if you had a chance. If I was forced to use a weekend statement though I would say something like, "My week is pretty booked up, but I may have a little time next weekend. I'll contact you in a couple of days to set something up."


    Not going back on my word is my new texting strategy. Playing hard to get back on her worked wonders and got her responding a lot I just wasn't consistent enough because I got a little stiffled there. I need to keep learning how to play hard to get back while keeping my word.

    Basically instead of saying I am not going to call her Thur night anymore I should have still done that but never brought it up again. Basically I should have said so you're not super busy well once you're with me I'll keep you busy lol you can give me a back rub then. I felt it was getting too stale with this one and that would have generated a reply most likely instead of me being all weak like that.
    There's a time and a place for everything. Would it really have been the right time to have said such a statement. I'm not sure because I don't know the context of the convo, but you want to say stuff like that once you've built some comfort, attraction, and steered your convos in a more sexual oriented context. Otherwise, you'll just come off ass a desperate creep.

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    Default Re: My texting strategy updated

    Yeah I just thought I had this one wrapped around my finger since we were talking a lot. I still think me backing out of calling her displayed too much frustration.

    I always thought I sucked at texting game till me and this girl started hitting it off. It's for the better because we had a $70 date set up and I don't know if I want to be doing something like that for someone that lives so far away. She lives 40 miles away plus I'm moving in a couple months 40 miles farther from her which would have meant I would have been 80 miles away. I need to qualify girls sooner and I just wanted the XP but next time I hope I can qualify girls who live closer to my new place of no more than 50 miles, 80 miles is just a lot of work.


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