Hey guys here is an update on this girl who just shut me down. lilsting probably won't be happy about this cuz he said to get rid of all my numbers but hey I needed the XP.
Met her 4 days ago, she is going back to her ex. Here's why she said she was busy all weekend then when I said maybe next weekend if you're free she got insecure then said I'm not super busy I get off work at x time. I said I was going to call you thur night to ask you out now I am not let's see what happens Sat. She didn't like that and shut me down today. Stay consistent guys I already said I would call her thur and went back on my word and that's why I lost this one. That's my last number so time to get new numbers.
Not going back on my word is my new texting strategy. Playing hard to get back on her worked wonders and got her responding a lot I just wasn't consistent enough because I got a little stiffled there. I need to keep learning how to play hard to get back while keeping my word.
Basically instead of saying I am not going to call her Thur night anymore I should have still done that but never brought it up again. Basically I should have said so you're not super busy well once you're with me I'll keep you busy lol you can give me a back rub then. I felt it was getting too stale with this one and that would have generated a reply most likely instead of me being all weak like that.