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    99Problems is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Used M&Ms/Skittles/Strawberries opener and got a harsh repsonse

    I used the M&Ms/Skittles/Strawberries opener on POF and got this as a response from one person:

    How the duck could you cheat by picking one thing?
    Not the kind of response I was hoping for so how should I respond? I feel like telling her to lighten up or something. Good idea or not? Cheating would be picking two things instead of one? lol

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    Default Re: Used M&Ms/Skittles/Strawberries opener and got a harsh repsonse

    Quote Originally Posted by 99Problems View Post
    I used the M&Ms/Skittles/Strawberries opener on POF and got this as a response from one person:



    Not the kind of response I was hoping for so how should I respond? I feel like telling her to lighten up or something. Good idea or not? Cheating would be picking two things instead of one? lol
    You can skip this if you like, it's more of a "big picture" thing and doesn't directly answer your question:
    I use a variation of the opener that I wrote and you will get harsh responses sometimes. It's just the way it is WITH ANY OPENER. You need to keep in mind, this is a contact sport...the more girls you contact, the more numbers you get. The more numbers you get, the more f2fs (face-to-faces) you'll get. The more f2f's you get, the more pussy you get (eventually). This is the important part: I have found this to be the opener MOST LIKELY along with good pics and a strong profile to garner ANY kind of response. From there, you have to have some kind of actual game. That's the hard part and what you're actually struggling with.

    In direct respoonse to your question:
    What is the exact phrasing of the opener you use? This can have a huge impact on the responses you get. I would say "Woah, take it easy with the bitchshield. I was just trying to break the ice." She 's either a bitch or testing you and either way, you need to call her on it. Urbancowboy out!

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    Default Re: Used M&Ms/Skittles/Strawberries opener and got a harsh repsonse

    This is what I sent to that particular girl:

    Hey you seem like an interesting person. I have a serious question for you tho... If you had to choose one of these which would it be... M&Ms, Skittles or Strawberries? Remember, only choose one and no cheating!
    Not sure if that is good or not as I am new to this whole game. I did customise it slightly for different girls but overall the above is basically what I sent. I haven't got any responses back yet. I appreciate you have your own custom version of it that you probably don't want to publicly share but I really could use some help.

    I have also tried the opener "Hey, so do you have a job? I need a woman who can support me while I play video games all day." in addition to personalized openers like: "Hey {name} I had a read through your profile and you have a lot of similar interests to me plus great taste in music too"

    No responses either. Months ago when I first joined POF I was getting responses to personalized openers relating to similar interests and questions but they all eventually fizzled out after a few messages.

    I think I have a strong profile and good photos the only real problem I have is communication and shyness. Any advice?


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