Re: Ugh... texting plz holp
You're putting too much stress on yourself right now because you are working towards an end goal. You are focusing too much on the future instead of the now. Just enjoy the conversation you are in at the moment, not the one that you think you will have tomorrow. Don't text her because you are strategically trying to get her to go out with you. It causes you to lose your naturality, which in turn causes you to lose her. Just trust me when I say that by focusing on the now and enjoying yourself, you will not only enjoy this venture more, but you will also have more success as well.
As for the technical details, I can give you a few tidbits.
First off, you are texting her too much. Don't text her so many days in a row. Unless she initiates first within the time span, shake things up by going two or three days between conversations. Now you shouldn't do that all the time. It's alright to text her back to back days. However, it's not recommended that you do it all the time.
Secondly, the flow of this entire thing is nearly dead. On the first day, you basically said hello and then left. Second day, you sent the same opener, and the third day you killed a potential conversation tangent with an opener. A rookie move, and it amounts to no variety. If there's anything that I hear women complain about the most, it's when a person sends them a hello, and then does not proceed to carry out a conversation with them. If you begin the shot, then you have to carry it through.
In addition, although you try to add emotion to your texts through emoticons, they seem incredibly boring. They are the typical jargon I would see from any amateur, and it doesn't interest me in the slightest way. As you go from Day 1 to the end of Day 3, you can clearly see she lost a load of interest. The emoticons stopped coming, the texts became blander and blander, it was just heading towards the crap chute by the time you asked her out. When you are texting someone, it is critical that you make it interesting. Flirt with her, get the conversation going onto weird and wild tangents, be that guy that isn't like the rest.
I would recommend to go around on the forums and check out the threads on text game. Fortunately, our one and only hyp has compiled all the best text threads and posts on the forums into one thread that can be found here.
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