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    Default She might want smtg serious: how not to hurt her -advice me!

    I've seen a very nice girl 5 times, the last 2 with sex.

    To make a long story short, I believe she might want to transform what we have now into a relationship and I think she might be falling in love with me at the moment.

    I like her, she's very sweet and nice, but I don't think I'm looking for a relationship.
    I really hope it's not too late to warn her because the last thing I want to do is to hurt people, and especially so when they're nice.

    How can I can tell her this?

    I thought like this:

    A. I really like you, you're a great girl and I want to keep seeing you.

    However, I believe that to avoid possible misunderstandings and future possible suffering, I should tell you that if you are looking for a stable relationship and a boyfriend, I might not be the right guy.
    While I enjoy seeing you and spending time with you, I don't know if I want a relationship, also because at the moment there are good chances that I will move out of here before the end of the year
    (which is true).

    I hope it's OK with you and we can keep enjoying our time together.

    What do you think?


    What do you think?
    And better in person when I see her next time or better not to waste any more time and go for it via message?

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    Default Re: How not to hurt her -advice needed-

    Sounds about perfect, brosky. As long as you're honest about what you want, you've done everything you can. Sadly, you can't control her emotions. But you can make sure she knows you don't want anything more.
    Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming “WOW...What a Ride!”

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    Default Re: She might want smtg serious: how not to hurt her -advice me!

    honesty is key
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