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    Gexx750 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default She's sick before the first date.

    Lately I've broken out of my aa shell and I've been doing some approaches, I met this girl last weekend, shes actually my friends sister so we were in a group of 4, we flirted a little bit and didn't put all my attention on her and at the end of the night she was pretty eager to give me her number. We texted a little bit, and on Wednesday I called her and asked what she was doing on Friday night (today) she said nothing, so I told her she should go out with me, I could tell she was excited when she said yes.

    Last night she sent me a text and said she was getting kind of sick, I didn't have my phone until this morning, and this is where I would like the communities opinion on how I did since I've never dealt with this type of deal before.

    Her ( last night ) : Just a heads up. I feel like im getting a sore throat and maybe a cold. I'll be taking medicine non stop to avoid it if possible, but if I feel worse tomorrow we may have to reschedule.

    Me ( today ) : Hey girl how ya fellin

    Her : Im ok bc I've taken cold medicine. Im so tired though

    Me : Good, if you're not up to it tonight that's cool. Let me know though, sprucing up ain't easy XD

    Her : I do want to, you're fun to be around, but lets wait til Im not sniffing and all that lovely stuff. Im sorry :/

    Me : Cool, the last thing I need is to be sick. Get better, you can make it up to me later =P

    And that's the end of that, I'm grateful for any critiques you guys may have. Thanks PUAs

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    Default Re: She's sick before the first date.

    seems fine to me, i've been in the exact same situation saying almost the exact same things and closed the week after, so that's fine imo

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    Default Re: She's sick before the first date.

    focus on your last face to face interaction , did you leave thinking she wanted you ! ? hang on to that feeling , you're doing great man and you'll show her the great time she unfortunately missed the first time around , keep in touch every once in a while to make sure you don't loose attraction. You're the prize and she's lucky you're sharing some of it with her ! mentality

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    Default Re: She's sick before the first date.

    Its best to thread cautiously why does she have a cold now.you never know.so don't go with her excuse and tell her to make it up its not bad but what if it something she could have come and met you anyways.
    to me its best to say in this situation cuul and cut the conversation and reengage later.don't even say get well soon.she will be fine.

    When ever in a dynamic like this it best to never follow up with the reason.simply wait a few days and reengage her.


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