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    Default Re: Summer, fling, bailed, need opinions in this

    I'm this post I don't get what it means to " give up in a more alpha way" can I get some examples
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    Default Re: Summer, fling, bailed, need opinions in this

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    I'm this post I don't get what it means to " give up in a more alpha way" can I get some examples
    play it cool- dont seem affected by anything she says, and leave the doors open. watch james bond at his finest- or hank moody

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    Default Re: Summer, fling, bailed, need opinions in this

    That's what I'm doing though, and other people are saying I'm doing something wrong, but I don't see what doing wrong
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    Default Re: Summer, fling, bailed, need opinions in this

    well just look back- you said im not going to be anyones second choice- she replied(what she say btw?) you never answered. thats 2 pushes(push and pull) right there.( she might hit u up again if she really fell for you. also you were going to chill w her friends and her- not exclusively you and her. so dont make it sound like a date.

    ok have fun with him
    instead

    sure, bring him along. etc etc

    learn from your mistakes win some lose some

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    Default Re: Summer, fling, bailed, need opinions in this

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    Lol she ended up saying she still wants to party with me and I could hook up with some of her friends when she comes over and I said "it won't be the same" ( I know it sounds crazy but I was putting a smart plan in motion). She then texted back " ok but if it doesn't work out we can still hang out and do what you want this summer" I just simply stated " no, I'm not going to be anyone's second choice." She texted back but I just ignored it and deleted the convo. ( my plan is basically a push and pull. By saying that and not texting back it'll make her think and she'll come back harder then ever.) I understand what y'all are trying to say though. So is my strategy good or bad?

    It's great actually mate, kudos for you. You acted like a truly whinny little bitch.

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    Default Re: Summer, fling, bailed, need opinions in this

    Alright thanks guys!! I have now understoody mistake and will fix it up
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    Default Re: Summer, fling, bailed, need opinions in this

    Dude obviously this chick was into you. I wouldn't say you made a mistake I would just you know of other angles to take with these situations. You can frame it however you want and come across as needy, alpha, etc. You said some needy stuff but it's okay to be needy at times just not all the time eventually women will get tired of you if you never go alpha or too alpha.

    You did good at pushing her away but the art.of Push Pull is to pull her back in. Again I don't think u failed just keep amusing yourself and getting that validation.

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    Default Re: Summer, fling, bailed, need opinions in this

    Ayyee!! Well guys I did the pull and she was basically pleading to leave the guy to hang out/ party with me. With her friends. (I think it's going to be an orgy with me, her, and her friends). ( I escalated more)
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    Default Re: Summer, fling, bailed, need opinions in this

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    Ayyee!! Well guys I did the pull and she was basically pleading to leave the guy to hang out/ party with me. With her friends. (I think it's going to be an orgy with me, her, and her friends). ( I escalated more)

    Absolutely awesome, like I said pull her in. You did great with this girl was begging to have you LOL. Way to go on salvaging a difficult situation, told you she was beating around the bush. Don't assume anything about this girl just keep her on her toes until you actually score. I love this well played.

    I'm currently running a Freeze Out on this girl who sh!t tested me with the same thing telling me she was leaving me for some guy she was thinking about. I told her feelings change and girls come back to guys all the time and she came running back to me. Trying to strip her of a bit of validation with a freeze out for 1 day since she sh!t tested me like that and I am more cautious like I might get another sh!t test and going strait for the Day 2 when I hit her up again.
    Also trying to see if she will chase me during the freeze out.


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