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Thread: I need advice. I'm having Jealousy issues

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    Default I need advice. I'm having Jealousy issues

    Hey Brothers I was hoping you could help me with a difficult situation I'm having with my girlfriend. I'm in college I play football and my girlfriend runs track. We've been together for about a year and two months. So far everything has been tremendous. Only recently she did some things that really pissed me off and kinda hurt me. 1. She beautiful and athletic and has a great body and posted a picture of herself on instagram in s sports bra flexing. I'm jealous because when I asked her to send me a picture of her doing the same she says no. I know there are other guys at our college and I hate to sound needy and jealous but I know he is after her and I feel like she wants the approval of other guys. However, I dont know why when I tell her how gorgeous she is daily, which I am now second guessing. I didn't mention any of this to her but I put an angry post on Facebook and when she texted me I ignored her. 2. She is sometimes a little sarcastic or seemingly insensitive to what I say to her.

    One other note is she often talks about marriage and such things and I know we love each other. I have said not till things are right and we are full adults. Also we are off for summer and she lives an hour and a half away and I have no car but I saw her a week ago and we had a loving passionate blast at a theme park.

    What should I do I get this fark you then attitude when this type of thing happens. HElp me please

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    Default Re: I need advice. I'm having Jealousy issues

    Hey man,

    Check out this article I wrote:

    Jealousy*|*Bill Preston's Advice

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    Default Re: I need advice. I'm having Jealousy issues

    Dude my only advice is to do nothing. YOU have the girl!!! Don't even worry about those other guys as long as you're treating her right and not showing her that you're jealous (everybody gets jealous just don't show it too much to her)
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: I need advice. I'm having Jealousy issues

    Torres1, I would recommend that you go buy the book 48 laws of power and read it with an open mind it will teach you a lot and also help you with your jealous problems. I can't with certitude give you the rule number, I think it's law#9, that says "win through your actions, never through arguments. and also the law that I like the most and try to incorporate to my daily life is "be the master of your emotion" which doesn't mean be emotionless, but rather learn how to hid them and never show them (i'm referring to your angry facebook post here, not your gf), which help keep people puzzled about your next move.
    good luck man, but please, whatever she does just remember it's not the end of the world, keep it cool, calm, and collected.

    Nikee --just do it, because I just did it--

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    Default Re: I need advice. I'm having Jealousy issues

    thx for the link Bill, If she shows too much interest or investment in another guy in front of you, then move on. that's a pretty solid indicator right there so thx


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