Hi here's my situation and I hope to get some advice. I've been your typical "nice guy" pretty much forever and after my last failed relationship I've actively tried to change. The trouble is it's hard to break habits you've had for forever.
Anyways, about a month and a half ago I met a girl online. She is very cool and we talk regularly and she shows interest in me. I feel I've been doing a good job of staying focused on my own life and not being constantly available to her, in hopes of keeping her interested and having a life outside of one girl.
It's her birthday soon and I decided to get her a gift, a funny card and some candy from here that she never had and can't get where she's at. I didn't think this was anything too bad or too much. However then I think I blew it by adding a necklace, it wasn't anything expensive just something that I thought she'd like. Problem is now I feel I did too much and possibly ruined something good I had going, either by scaring her off or being seen as a beta who can just be used for stuff.
Is there a way I can salvage this or is this really not as big a deal as I imagine it to be? Thanks in advance for any advice.