Re: How do I get my girl to diet and exercise?
Well I'll tell you how I'd do it. But doesn't mean I'm right.
I'd just let her know that it's my own goal to lose weight and that we should do it together to inspire each other.
If weight loss isn't her goal then you may want to be more subtle. Like seeing the women on TV and magazines and say how hot they are. She might speak out angrily at you, but if you keep your cool and let her know she's overreacting then you're fine. Your point will still come across to her: that you find fit women hot. This'll create a knee jerk reaction in her stomach letting her know she may need to get on the ball if she wants you to be attracted to her and not lose you to another woman. Just a thought.
Remember whichever route you choose you have to let her decide for herself. If it's going to be real change then it has to be her decision. If she doesn't want to then you may have to reevaluate things and decide how important it is for you for her to lose weight.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."