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    Shadowstorm is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How do I get my girl to diet and exercise?

    So I've met a girl who I truly feel is a kindred spirit. Of all the times I've casually flirted and picked up women in bars, not one of them has shared any interests with me, but she's like a female version of me. However, she's kinda let herself go. She used to exercise quite extensively every day with MMA and Krav Maga, but stopped a few years ago due to work.

    I'm not trying to be a shallow asshat who wants to complain about a fat girlfriend. We're both about 20-30 pounds from our ideal weight and I'd ideally like to lose weight with her. How do I open that dialogue without hurting her?

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    Default Re: How do I get my girl to diet and exercise?

    Well I'll tell you how I'd do it. But doesn't mean I'm right.

    I'd just let her know that it's my own goal to lose weight and that we should do it together to inspire each other.

    If weight loss isn't her goal then you may want to be more subtle. Like seeing the women on TV and magazines and say how hot they are. She might speak out angrily at you, but if you keep your cool and let her know she's overreacting then you're fine. Your point will still come across to her: that you find fit women hot. This'll create a knee jerk reaction in her stomach letting her know she may need to get on the ball if she wants you to be attracted to her and not lose you to another woman. Just a thought.

    Remember whichever route you choose you have to let her decide for herself. If it's going to be real change then it has to be her decision. If she doesn't want to then you may have to reevaluate things and decide how important it is for you for her to lose weight.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: How do I get my girl to diet and exercise?

    I do what batman do and if she still being lazy I lift her up and bring her to the car. I do that all the time . I want my woman to be hot and I told my gf the first day we started dating, working out is important to me and she looking hot is also important to me.
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    Default Re: How do I get my girl to diet and exercise?

    I was thinking something along those lines. Wasn't sure if there was a more effective yet not obvious way to do it. Thanks guys! I've asked if she'll help me keep in shape by learning to fence so I'll have a dueling partner.

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    Default Re: How do I get my girl to diet and exercise?

    You could always like her this site and let her find out that way. OH wait, you already did tha. Lt


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