For the past couple days, numerous girls started flaking, while I'm trying to set up d2 over texting. It's getting frustrating. I've been searching around but couldn't find something specific as a solution.
Shortened examples (Some smileys excluded because of forum limitations) :
Me: I guess your school has ended, so it's time to put the fun back in the equation! Meet me @ 2.03pm on Thursday and we're gonna go bowling, let's see what have you got against me!
Girl1: Sounds fun! We'll see
(These texts were 3 days prior to the meeting, so I felt like I should sent a text couple hours before the event, just to see if she will flake on me.)
Me: Hey *her nickname*! Ready to test your ball rolling skills?
Girl1: Uhh, I hate to say this but I just had a piercing on my belly button so I fear it might get hurt while playing bowling.
(It seemed like a genuine excuse so I didn't want to push it too much.)
Me: Oh really? C'mon you can easily roll the ball without bending your belly.
Girl1: But I won't win with those lame shots.
Me: You wouldn't win even if you were in perfect condition.
Girl1: Haha you think so?
Me: Yeah, hey, since every fun activity will involve your belly button, I guess we'll go next time...
Girl1: For sure.
Me: Hey I've got 2 tickets to the game tonight. Make sure you have your pompoms ready! Pick u up at 7.
Girl2: Wow, really? Ok, I'm in!
(Couple hours later...)
Girl2: Uhh some urgent meeting came up, I can't come with you, sorry!
Me: It's fine. Just make sure your meeting is more fun than the game!
Girl2: Haha, I'll try.
Me: Let's go to the beach today! I heard it's cocktail day in the bar! Pick you up @ 3.07.
Girl3: Uhh, sounds fun but I'd rather stay at home today...
Me: And miss this awesome sun? Girl, you're really boring.
Girl3: (She sends a smiling and winking picture, nothing revealing, nothing fancy) I guess I'm fun enough.
Me: Oh really? Is that your definition of fun? I need better evidence.
Girl3: Okay, I'll send better pics when I go out tomorrow night. (Seems like a Sh1t Test)
Me: Wow, so you're gonna send me pictures of you with other guys?
Girl3: Hahaha maybeee...
Me: That'd maybe a bit fun, but make sure those guys give the "duckface" pose, or it won't mean anything.
Girl3: LOL! You got it.
This is the situation I'm in, basically. There are other girls too but I just got too tired and frustrated and gave sh1tty responses, so those are on me.
Any takes on this guys? I feel like I'm really stuck here but none of the girls seem like they are blowing me off. They seem like they have reasonable excuses, so maybe I should just try to set up a meeting for another time?...
Thanks for your help,