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    Default How do I play this game?

    Okay this may be a little out there for most of you guys but just wanted to put a different spin on it. I am taking a break as I have yet to mention because thanks to this forum and being a PUA I have no problem meeting women, getting their #'s, getting make outs, etc. But I have been getting a little burned out lately and here's why.

    No responses to texting
    My problem used to be not getting responses to my texts but my problem is now girls texting me too much. I used to wonder why I tried everything from being funny, cocky, boring, crazy and never get responses to my texts. Now I just be real and be myself and the last two girls I got their numbers we were texting like crazy. I would text them at 11am and the convo would carry till 10pm or 1pm and carry till 2am. As you can imagine a few days of this really started to wear me out that girls like texting so much so I am taking a break because girls keep texting me so much and it wears me out. Essentially I am trying to figure out what I can do differently for next time not to get responses but to better manage it. What happened with the one is this day long convo's went on 4 four days strait and the other one a couple days off and on.

    Not sure where to take it
    Like I text that night to hook up or whatever and never happens, text next day and it usually always leads to a convo. Out of the N-closes I actually do I have about a 50% turnover rate of getting a girl's number. But my question is why do I have to play this game of texting that night if we never hook up or text the next day since they never want to meet up. My question is why can't I just text a girl whenever I want (1-2 weeks) and not worry about all this social conditioning of texting the next day when it usually fizzles out in 3-4 days anyway? I was just wondering why can't I do what I want with texting and calling when I am bored rather than taking up all my day when I am actually doing something and keep getting interrupted in the middle of my day when I am trying to play video games or just relax? I mean they never agree to a Day 2 anyway so why can't I just try something different like texting them when I feel like it rather than trying to qualify myself to them by texting them the socially acceptable timeframe to be accepted (when they always reject me in the end anyway)? Not frustrated just a little curious about doing something different. This is how I acted in my prime and I got girls after me all the time and had no problems meeting up with them.

    Again not feeling frustrated I used to be very frustrated that I was getting no responses no I just can't figure out how to tell them No, I'm busy, don't want to be bothered because they are interuppting me during work, my hobbies, and it is usually pointless anyway since they keep playing hard to get.

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    Default Re: How do I play this game?

    How's the sexual Tension between you and them? Do you ever use innuendo?

    The issue could also lie in qualification. I've noticed a lot of guys overlook this step. Do you make it known that she is actually unique and special to you at the right moment? It's a bit difficult to read why you are having difficulties making D2's.
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    Default Re: How do I play this game?

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    How's the sexual Tension between you and them? Do you ever use innuendo?

    The issue could also lie in qualification. I've noticed a lot of guys overlook this step. Do you make it known that she is actually unique and special to you at the right moment? It's a bit difficult to read why you are having difficulties making D2's.

    Well for one thing I can tell you right now out of the 22#'s I have gotten I have only gone for the Day 2 3 times. So that was the majority of my problem to being with since I was so desperate for responses I never went for a Day 2. Now I go for it right away and recognized this problem a few girls ago. It has definitely helped my game.

    I had 2 Day 2's set up but the interactions fizzled out in the in between so I realize now once they agree to a Day 2 to cut off all contact since this has what screwed me out of getting them out. Also I think maybe I should wait longer to text women or at least longer in between texts since I am tired of all these day long convo's. I just think I need to start telling girls "No, I don't want to be bothered, I'm busy, etc." since they are just going to wear me out with the nonstop convo's.

    I think honestly truly the best approach is to stop dropping what I am doing to text a women or texting them way early in the day in hopes of getting them out that day. From now on I am not going to be texting them in the middle of my work, in the middle of a video game, in the middle of my day, etc. I will just blow them off or put them on the spot by saying I am busy. Also I think I will just text when it is convenient and I am on break, on lunch, or taking a break from my game but not going to stop my whole world from turning anymore to text some girl. From now on they get put on the backburner for good tired of all this wasted time.

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    Default Re: How do I play this game?

    A simple "I've g2g. I'll ttyl" should be enough if that's your issue.

    I tend to go for same day meet ups or something within two days. I feel like planning too far ahead puts too much importance on them and they may not deserve it. Usually I'll just check to see what they are up to and meet within a few hours if they're able. Like if I'm bored and I hit them up last min.
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    Default Re: How do I play this game?

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    A simple "I've g2g. I'll ttyl" should be enough if that's your issue.

    I tend to go for same day meet ups or something within two days. I feel like planning too far ahead puts too much importance on them and they may not deserve it. Usually I'll just check to see what they are up to and meet within a few hours if they're able. Like if I'm bored and I hit them up last min.


    I like this, I haven't tried that yet. Instead I ask them to hang out a lot earlier in the day when I have no clear plans. I will try starting to text them when I am ready to go out with a clear plan. I guess you noticed since one girl I set a Day 2 two weeks in advance for a friend's B-day party and she was super excited but that went south in all the texting of her losing interest, then the last one 3 days in advance for a Beer Garden Festival but it went south with all the nonstop texting and sh!t tests, and the other one about one week in advance for her to cut my hair at her Hair Salon but it went south because she got bored with all the nonstop texting 4 days in a row and didn't like some of my poorly executed Hot & Cold. The main reason for this is because they didn't agree to meet up right away but I think If I more clearly define what I am trying to do then I might get somewhere.

    Like "Hey going out to XXX at such and such time you should join me." Instead of "Have coffee with me, go to this Beer Garden Festival with me, yes I would like to set an appointment for you to cut my hair, etc" Also I think a lot of what's been happening is because I am getting worn out so are they that's what's with all the sh!t tests, things going south, etc. I need to find a way to balance this out with freeze outs. Now I definitely see the purpose. The girl with the B-day Day 2 plans suffered very steady freeze outs from me and that caused me to lose interest which caused her to grow distant.

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    Default Re: How do I play this game?

    I think the best thing for you is keep focused on your goal. Which is to get her into bed, yes? In order to do that you need to meet up, right? So focus on that while you are texting and all the while have in the back of your mind that she must "earn" that invite from you. Like if she said something funny or really started to invest in the conversation then qualify her. ex: " I forgot how much fun you are. What are you up to right now?"

    If you keep that in mind then your texting will have actual direction to it rather than simply texting just to text. Hopefully this helped.
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    Default Re: How do I play this game?

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    I think the best thing for you is keep focused on your goal. Which is to get her into bed, yes? In order to do that you need to meet up, right? So focus on that while you are texting and all the while have in the back of your mind that she must "earn" that invite from you. Like if she said something funny or really started to invest in the conversation then qualify her. ex: " I forgot how much fun you are. What are you up to right now?"

    If you keep that in mind then your texting will have actual direction to it rather than simply texting just to text. Hopefully this helped.

    LOL, well getting laid is not exactly my goal. As I have said once on here before I have only slept with 2 girls (not through playing the game) and turned away 6 girls in my prime who tried to sleep with me. I could have gotten laid a lot more and some girl even tried to sleep with me one time while I was with my ex-girlfriend and she wanted me to ditch my GF for her. But I was never all about getting laid probably never will be. After getting out of my prime I got into the game because I wanted what I can't have.

    At first I just wanted to approach and get over my aa
    Then I just wanted to get responses to my texts
    Then I just wanted to get a Day 2 set up
    Now I just want to sleep in a girl's bed
    Whether or not I sleep with a girl is not that important right now or even pulling a girl to go home with her. However sleeping in a girl's bed is very important to me right now as I have been daydreaming about that for a while now and definitely want to get to that out of my system as I feel I would be able to string them along better once I accomplish some stuff.


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