Got K and N close in a club at the weekend and spent a large part of last night messaging one another. Just getting to know each other. She went to bed and so did I. I wasn't planning on texting first today and I guess she wasn't either. Messaging yesterday seemed to go well, but I didn't escalate sexually as I didn't feel comfortable yet.
She's quite a bit older than me and we didn't find out until after we had exchanged numbers. Could she have concerns about this, or is she just playing it as cool as me? How long should I wait before re-initiating contact?