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    mike_unique is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Tried the friend to girlfriend approach and failing

    Hey guys,
    I've been reading through these forums for a while now and I now have a dilema which I need help with. So I've known this girl for about 2 years now, we've always been good friends. About a year ago I started to flirt a little more with her and eventually I had the courage to ask her out, she kept on changing the subject or somehow rejecting me. I had a girlfriend after that so I told her she couldn't text me anymore. After I broke up with my girlfriend we started talking again and it was going good. One day she asked me to get lunch but she asked me to be there in an hour. I said I couldn't because I was busy and told her next time she should tell me a few days in advance. I keep trying to get her to go out with me and she keeps on changing the subject. Her dad is strict and barely lets her out so it's a challenge for me. She kept on throwing hints that we're just friends lately so I thought I would try the triangle method and I started talking to her best friend and started flirting with her friend. This apparantly didn't do anything, because she started getting even more distant with me. She hasn't texted me for weeks now, and her friend wants to go on a date, but if I go on this date, don't I lose my chances with her? Should I go on this date or will that just make it worse...?

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    Default Re: Tried the friend to girlfriend approach and failing

    There are some girls who do not respond to this.if you are hitting on my friend.. then what makes me special.a little jealousy should help but going too far as to setting up the date, i assume you flirted a bit too hard too.
    if you like her friend and really want to be on this date then go ahead.but if you feel the other girl is who you want then make up an excuse.when you flirt with a girls friend too hard and she liked you expect her friends to tease her. this could hurt on some level.eventually putting a wall up.

    Sometimes they may not be into you.but am wondering why if she doesn't mind too much why she hasn't texted you.u have done damage but have also practiced gaming a girl a bit more.take that and move on.why?
    What you did may give another man a chance if you hurt her and quite frankly it will be difficult a bit to rewind the emotional turmoil is best you look ahead but don't go out with the girl.this would put you in a good light and also a probable chance of her seeing you in a few weeks at least.

    When you get her in person run game whilst applying Kino and escalate.if you pull this off which am sure you will don't go ever near her friend again.Eventually she will get over it if she was into you.keep your options open always unless you are exclusive if even practice talking to girls with a focus on the skillset.

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    mike_unique is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Tried the friend to girlfriend approach and failing

    I bailed on her friend, made an excuse and she never texted me back. Anyways, now I think I will give her an ultimatum, its either all or none. Either she wants to be more than friends or we don't ever talk again.

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    Default Re: Tried the friend to girlfriend approach and failing

    How about go ahead talk to few girls and come back with a cool calm energy.its not good to project that you were affected it looks like you may take this personally or worst of all come across like you were taking this personally.i think you are more in danger of the second becos of the range of emotions you may be feeling.anger a bit tense,plus the prospects of going ahead with a new girl.Don't allow yourself to loose steam.PEACE


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