I've been reading through these forums for a while now and I now have a dilema which I need help with. So I've known this girl for about 2 years now, we've always been good friends. About a year ago I started to flirt a little more with her and eventually I had the courage to ask her out, she kept on changing the subject or somehow rejecting me. I had a girlfriend after that so I told her she couldn't text me anymore. After I broke up with my girlfriend we started talking again and it was going good. One day she asked me to get lunch but she asked me to be there in an hour. I said I couldn't because I was busy and told her next time she should tell me a few days in advance. I keep trying to get her to go out with me and she keeps on changing the subject. Her dad is strict and barely lets her out so it's a challenge for me. She kept on throwing hints that we're just friends lately so I thought I would try the triangle method and I started talking to her best friend and started flirting with her friend. This apparantly didn't do anything, because she started getting even more distant with me. She hasn't texted me for weeks now, and her friend wants to go on a date, but if I go on this date, don't I lose my chances with her? Should I go on this date or will that just make it worse...?