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    Johnny_Toledo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default HB7 not responding after I almost f-closed her

    So I met this girl online about 3 weeks ago, and played it perfect. Built great rapport and she was really into me. Only problem was that she lived an hour away, but we met halfway on our first date.

    For our first date we met for coffee, then walked around some shops, and finally went to a movie. I used someones advice off this forum and put down the hand rest between the seats and put my arm around her, and I was making out with her before the credits even rolled. Then we went back to my car and madeout, and went out separate ways.

    About a week passed and we texted everyday, and I tried making plans but she kept cancelling because she lived so far. Finally, I said "youre on strike 2. 3 cancelled plans and its siyanara!" So she said ok, and i said, "If i drive to come see you, you come next week to see me (an hour). She enthusiastically said "deal".

    So, I drove to see her and we hung out at the beach and then her house (her parents were there). She gave me a handjob and madeout and basically were talking about fucking if no one was there. I made it clear that the next day was my birthday, and I wanted her to come and sleep over. She said ok. BTW, I told her I was not looking for anything too serious, and that after this week I cannot hang out much. Stupid idiot I am lol.

    So, the next day i texted her, and she said she may not be able to come that day because of working late.. I was disappointed and basically sent 4 or 5 more texts that day asking if she could come (I know I was to needy). I said "you lie" and she said no im not lying. She didnt end up coming. The next day I text her, "today is the last day I can hang out before my cruise." She said shed text me after work and lemme know. I called her later, but no pickup and no text back.

    Its been 3 days and she texted me once saying "hi", and I replied, but no reply from her. Should I text her something like, "So technically thats 3 cancelled plans, and you know my policy...but I do find broom heads hot (inside joke)...Im in a conundrum. what do you think I should do?"" I'm not sure what to do at this point. Did i lose her by acting only interested in sex and saying Im not looking for anything too serious? Ughh.

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    Default Re: HB7 not responding after I almost f-closed her

    You lost her by sending 4 or 5 EXTREMELY needy messages. Freeze her out for 3 days.

    Then start a whole new thread with your texts. Don't mention any cancelled plans. Move forward. Always think before sending an e-mail or text, "What would an AFC guy do right now?" Then do the total opposite.

    Most times it's easier to think of something to say / do by doing the opposite of what an AFC would do. It works for me.

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    Johnny_Toledo is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: HB7 not responding after I almost f-closed her

    Thanks bro, I'll freeze it out as you said, but.... I am leaving for a week in 2 days and will have no phone access for 7 days. Should I just text her right before I leave, saying something like "Hey there blondie, leaving on my week long cruise- good to be me! Dont miss me too much " or something?


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