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    Default Need quick help on how to reply

    So I've been talking to this girl for the past week and can't get much out of her. Before I just drop her completely due to what seems to be her lack of fun, maybe someone could help me out with something to say.

    Background: So this girl and I were planning on doing a happy hour after work. I've known her for about 3 years and went out occasionally as friends. I've never been too interested in her but I'm trying to get back in the game so it can't hurt trying to game her!

    Her: No happy hour for me tonight.
    Me: What...why not
    Her: Sorry!! I'm exhausted
    Me: Lol no problem, I'll probably still head over with some friends...I'm gonna go out on a limb and say you're exhausted because of your two jobs...

    Her (The next day): How was last night
    Me: Actually just went to a different bar to grab a drink with friends so we'll have to go next week...no excuses...and you totally owe me
    Her: Haha I owe you? Why is that

    Any advice on where I can go from here. ALSO, please feel free to critique my text game.

    Thanks a lot in advance guys!
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    Default Re: Need quick help on how to reply

    Eh I wouldn't have told her that she owed me (even though she does), but everyone has a different approach.

    I interpret her response under the qualification category. Trying to get you to explain why she owes you is a frame she's setting up like she's the prize. So switch it.

    From here you could go and say, "Well if you don't know then I don't think this relationship is going to work out. I cook and clean all day and this is what I get? Geez." Just my opinion.
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    Default Re: Need quick help on how to reply

    Thanks for the tips @batman...I was unfortunately thinking the same thing right after I sent it

    For future reference...how do you think I could have made the entire text exchange better?
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    Default Re: Need quick help on how to reply

    I'd say the you owe me part may have been a killer, and possibly the no excuses. It shows you were actually disgruntled be her lack of an appearance, AFC like. If you haven't already text her back... "Cougars want me. Need protection." Not sure how happy hour looks where your at, but this might swing.

    Also, if you've been friends for three years it shouldn't mean a ton if you hang out or not. Regardless your still probably going to be friends. Wait for your times to hang out with her, get her attracted, maybe slip a little interest in, and then not care about her until you hang out again. She'll feel it and realize the dynamic is shifting.

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    Default Re: Need quick help on how to reply

    It wasn't bad. I can tell a woman she owes me. It's just too early. I usually save it until after sex and I have a lot of compliance from her. You have to build that dynamic first that you are the leader and she listens to you.
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