Re: Need quick help on how to reply
Eh I wouldn't have told her that she owed me (even though she does), but everyone has a different approach.
I interpret her response under the qualification category. Trying to get you to explain why she owes you is a frame she's setting up like she's the prize. So switch it.
From here you could go and say, "Well if you don't know then I don't think this relationship is going to work out. I cook and clean all day and this is what I get? Geez." Just my opinion.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."