So met this girl through a mutual girlfriend that hangs out with my group of friends - about a month and half ago.
We always go out with her group of friends every weekend everyone has a good time. One weekend, she started to show heavy interest and we hit it off and got her in the sack - blacked out but closed it.
After that, she starts texting me heavy and we start to hang out maybe once a week - she works in retail so she has weird hours. The context of her texts are like, had a such a great time, cant wait to hang out again, never had a guy make me laugh like that in a long time, etc. My responses showed interest but reserved.
And then maybe two weekends later, closed her again. The same texting happens again, good morning texts, good night texts. I would say we both initiated convo evenly and spaced out, days in between. she would always suggest to hang out but sometimes would cancel last minute.
So recently, I just text her good morning like usual, but did not get a response - she is usually pretty good at responding in a reasonable time frame. Didnt hear from her for about a week. Found out she lost her phone - she got it back last sunday and she texted me to see what i was up to. i asked what her week looked like adn she said we maybe could hang out on the following monday. i said that was fine with me. that day, she said she couldnt make it. i said ok, let me know when a better time would be for her, considering her schedule. she said ok. she also mentioned she has been really busy lately and something is always coming up. i said, thats life, not an issue.
so i didnt text her for a few days and sent her this today - serious problem, getting really bored cooking breakfast for one. she loves breakfast and we always talk about getting some. no response all day.
Early on, one night we were hanging out, she asked me what i wanted with us hanging out, she said she wasn't looking for a boyfriend and i said i'm having fun now, taking it day by day. kissed and stayed close the rest of the night. she is coming out of a real bad relationship so i can see that.
Everything has been going well up to this point, i haven't really been showing neediness or pushing anything. but as the last two weeks, i have noticed that she has backed off, not as much txts or the context of the texts have toned down. maybe the last text was too much? maybe i am challenging my self to get her to be my gf? i dunno. she is fun and like spending time but i really cant get a read on the situation.
anyone provide any insight?