Re: why relationships start after you have sex, not before?
I do have to sort of agree with this Mindset. But it's still too broad of a statement. I think it's all just different levels of a relationship that grows and matures. As soon as you start speaking to a woman you are establishing a relationship or dynamic with her. Friends? Gf? Booty call? That type of thing.
In my own opinion, I don't take anything too heavy before sex. It's all dancing before sex. Playing games, trying to be coy. Pretend that you don't like each other or don't like sex. That's where most of the head games between a man and woman occur. Unless it's Direct Game you're using.
But once you sleep with a woman the games cut down. At least for most of them. Now things are going in a different direction. Now you have both shown interest in each other and can now decide what to do with that interest.
As a general rule of thumb....sleep with her as soon as possible. You'll be in a better position of control over the relationship if you do.
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