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    danger_close is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default keep her attracted after bad text, advice appreciated

    hi all, please share your thoughts on this one.
    i've been texting and dating HB for about three weeks now. definitely gf material. we haven't been on a lot of dates since i've been traveling for a week and then having visitors for a week but the ones we had were really great and the attraction has been there.

    this weekend i was playing tourguide in l.a. on sunday, i texted her asking her for the name of a place she recommended friday.

    today she replies hi! omg, sorry, i didn't send you the address did i?
    me: hi miss short term, its all good, i always have a backup plan and now i know who will pick up the kids
    her: silence for an hour
    me: just to you know, silence after a text like this says "bad (my nickname)" to me, call me unless this cannot be fixed.

    no reply yet. friday we agreed to go on a date tomorrow, but i dont see this happens unless she breaks the silence. obviously, i made the mistake of being way to needy/eager which i realize is killing attraction. any thoughts on how to proceed setting up the date/recovering are *greatly* appreciated. am i just over-thinking this?

    do i just text a fun message like "i will pick her up at 6:99 pm in my magical pumpkin ride" or do i write something that acknowledges my error. like "my plans for today: building a time-machine to go back and improve my texting skills, getting a date tonight, and reading about the oxford comma. surely i will get at least two done!"

    suggestions? thoughts? thanks everyone!

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    Default Re: keep her attracted after bad text, advice appreciated

    Quote Originally Posted by danger_close View Post
    hi all, please share your thoughts on this one.
    i've been texting and dating HB for about three weeks now. definitely gf material. we haven't been on a lot of dates since i've been traveling for a week and then having visitors for a week but the ones we had were really great and the attraction has been there.

    this weekend i was playing tourguide in l.a. on sunday, i texted her asking her for the name of a place she recommended friday.

    today she replies hi! omg, sorry, i didn't send you the address did i?
    me: hi miss short term, its all good, i always have a backup plan and now i know who will pick up the kids
    her: silence for an hour
    Shouldnt have sent a second text to begin with but..
    me: just to you know, silence after a text like this says "bad (my nickname)" to me, call me<-should have left it here unless this cannot be fixed. <-sounds a bit needy and dlv

    no reply yet. friday we agreed to go on a date tomorrow, but i dont see this happens unless she breaks the silence. obviously, i made the mistake of being way to needy/eager which i realize is killing attraction. any thoughts on how to proceed setting up the date/recovering are *greatly* appreciated. am i just over-thinking this? I think youre over thinking this a bit

    do i just text a fun message like "i will pick her up at 6:99 pm in my magical pumpkin ride" If you do decide to send a text send something fun, dont act affected, act like its no big deal. But i would call. or do i write something that acknowledges my error. NO like "my plans for today: building a time-machine to go back and improve my texting skills, getting a date tonight, and reading about the oxford comma. surely i will get at least two done!"

    suggestions? thoughts? thanks everyone!
    .................... ..........

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    danger_close is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: keep her attracted after bad text, advice appreciated

    thanks pedro!

    i will call her this afternoon. if i get voicemail, i have a fun message telling her when i will pick her up tonight.

    if that does not her back in touch, i plan to make myself scarse. she knows i am going to vegas this weekend. so i will text her tomorrow saying that i think she is great and i've enjoyed our interaction so far but not responding before a date is a boundary for me since time is very valuable to me.

    any thoughts and words of advice would be like gold to me! thanks so much guys!


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