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    Default Texting sister of girl I slept with

    Hey guys, new to this, so gonna try and keep it short. But I need to give you context as to the situation I'm in:

    - known these 2 sisters for a very long time through family friends, but never knew them too well.
    - year and a half ago met one of the sisters (sister A) at event, got number and went on few dates for few months. Nothing ever materialized.
    - 6 months later sister A came to a party I hosted and decided to pin me to a wall and make out with me, which I reciprocated. We texted for about 2 weeks, but I ended it cause I was getting serious with another woman.
    - That month, sent sister B (younger one) a happy new year facebook message, where we went back and forth for a month. I asked her to grab a coffee (strictly to catch up - due to my new girl), but she refused cause she felt it would be awkward cause of my past with her sister (A).
    - fast forward 6 months, I'm single. Texted sister A randomly and was offered sex no strings which I went for. But after about a month of her flaking around (sex just once), decided not to waste time and haven't spoken to her in a month now.
    - Few days ago, I see sister B at a bar and strike up a fun convo all night (a lot of her touching my arm and back while talking into my ear. Me doing the same). I ask for her number since fb messaging is lame, which she agrees and hands me her number. Afterwards, I told her that I didn't want to take her away from her friends (who were pretty cold), so I returned to my boys who were a few feet away (doing their own work). I did this cause I wanted to make her feel like she wasn't the priority of the night. As I'm with the guys, I notice her glancing over her shoulder at me, every few minutes or so
    - Later on she comes over to say that her and friends are leaving, which I tell her, "So can we grab that coffee now or you gonna be a dork about it". Which she replies in my ear, laughing, "Message me."

    Now for the texting part (sorry guys, I wanted to put everything into context):

    - 2 days after the bar, I send:
    ME: Hey grandma! (referring to a joke I made that night for her never going out) Its (my name). How was the rest of your weekend? Btw I tried that amaretto & coke concoction of yours last night (a reference to a drink I made fun of her for ordering that night)... Not too bad, but I might have developed diabetes lol

    HER (4 hours later): Hey lol ya its really really sweet lol I told u haha

    Now I'm probably over thinking, but I just get this weird notion that she's not really into it. Maybe again due to the sister... She didn't answer a clear question I asked and left it pretty bland.

    What do you guys think I should reply? Thanks in advance!

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    Default Re: Texting sister of girl I slept with

    Remember when you write a long text people get to pick and choose what they want to answer to.( that's what you did and she took advantage by choosing which one to reply to).
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    Default Re: Texting sister of girl I slept with

    Ya I definitely agree with that. Any thoughts on how to get it back on track? Or do you feel like this is a blow off?

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    Default Re: Texting sister of girl I slept with

    Freeze her out for a couple of days. Then send her a text about something COMPLETELY different so you can start another thread. Make sure your texts don't make you look needy or AFC.

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    Default Re: Texting sister of girl I slept with

    There is a strong chance her sis told her about y'all hookup but don't worry about it unless she brings it up( just remember there is a possibility that she may have been told)
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    Default Re: Texting sister of girl I slept with

    woah man really...worst way of trying to have two sisters...why am i saying this well i think maybe the one who made out with you may like you.personally its not bad for two girls to like you but two sisters.tread cautiously.Actions you take could affect them most importantly you.you will have to live with it.there are many girls in your peripheral .its different if you run game on them both at the same venue and have the chances of moving things forward there.it takes balls for her to to do that(make out).in a situation like this it best to hyper focus on one of them.either way it BAD.yep you may be getting ios from this one currently but she seems to have that red flag at the back of her mind that seems to be a strong filter.my sister hit it.even if she wants you on some level


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