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    Unhappy To be Different?

    I've been texting this HB8 for a few hours now and I've been trying to mess with her and making her laugh. It's been successful and I'm really good friends with her best friend, and she told me "You have no idea how many guys text her the same stuff all the time, its really funny how all of them try to hit on her". I really haven't flirted with her yet, and I don't really know what to do ever since her friend told me that. What should I do? Any quick advice?

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    Default Re: To be Different?

    Use this baby with caution, it'll give you the edge you need:

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-text-gi...nal-bible.html

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    Default Re: To be Different?

    It's kinda hard to build attraction through text. You just want to keep hitting those emotional chords by being funny and such. Build whatever comfort and rapport you can If the opportunity shows. You don't want to waste too much time. Go for the meet up soon.

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    Default Re: To be Different?

    Texting is good to amplify attraction and comfort.

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    sh1t! I don't know what was going on in my head when I said that. Lemme clarify. You're building comfort just by texting so it's not something you have to go out of your way to build. Especially because you're being funny. Being funny strikes emotional chords which in turn builds attraction. My point was don't use text as a means to hold conversations. It should be used to make a couple of light flirty exchanges with the point being to take her out. You can build attraction and comfort through text, but don't end it there. Push for a meetup ASAP. It is not necessary to build rapport through text unless the opportunity presents itself.

    Here's a way to transition to the date through phone game which I got from the Simple Pickup guys.

    After a couple of light flirty/fun text exchanges, text something like this:

    "Texting is great and all but I feel like it's an impractical way to actually get to know someone. So here's what I'm going to do"

    2 options from this point. You can send the text and let her respond to that, or you can just continue right away to the 2nd half of the message. I've only tried this text once but it worked. I sent the first half and she responded with "What's that."

    Next message:

    "I'm going to give you a call (insert day) night and then if we both enjoy each others phone company we'll grab a non-alcoholic drink on (insert day)"

    Here's how it played out for me. Note: I was texting her on a Friday so the days are relative to that.

    Me: "So you probably have some muscles! (was a joke from what she said before) Texting is great and all but I feel like it's an impractical way to actually get to know someone. So here's what I'm going to do

    Her: What's that

    Me: I'm going to give you a call Sunday night and then if we both enjoy each others phone company we'll grab a non-alcoholic drink on Monday.

    Her: Sounds good to me however I'm not such a good phone talker. I also don't drink alcohol anymore so good thing its non alcoholic

    Her: I hope I don't work late Monday I tend to work all night some days sometimes till 3 am

    Me: As long as I don't call and hear a deep grisly voice, I think we'll be ok. We'll talk logistics over the phone. Have a good night

    Sent this right after
    Me: Btw not drinking alcohol is freaking awesome! And I saved you as *name* the zombie in my phone. I'm interested in that bite lol

    Her: Lol I sound like I'm 16 and haha very funny... trust me if I bite u... you will like it

    Her: Good night sweetheart

    Me: I don't know, I'm pretty hard to woo, so you'll have to give it your best shot. Night nerd :-)

    Her: Lol night

    The point of all of this was just showing another way to push for a date. This was my first time texting her after the initial approach. It worked wonders for me, and it might do the same for you. When you call her just call with a solid plan in mind and TELL her what's happening. I managed to build enough attraction to the point that she texted me the next day starting a convo. Needless to say it was smooth sailing after I talked to her on the phone

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    Default Re: To be Different?

    I got what you said lilsting, I was answering kruciel but good explanation!

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    Default Re: To be Different?

    Awesome one, lilsting

    Just one thing, not sure if you noticed, but:

    You: I'm going to give you a call Sunday night and then if we both enjoy each others phone company we'll grab a non-alcoholic drink on Monday.
    Her: I hope I don't work late Monday I tend to work all night some days sometimes till 3 am
    So basically, she's already agreeing on a Monday date, good job
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    Awesome one, lilsting

    Just one thing, not sure if you noticed, but:



    So basically, she's already agreeing on a Monday date, good job
    Ty. After I talked to her on the phone, she was so eloquently seduced. Easy as pie after that.

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    Default Re: To be Different?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kruciel View Post
    I've been texting this HB8 for a few hours now and I've been trying to mess with her and making her laugh. It's been successful and I'm really good friends with her best friend, and she told me "You have no idea how many guys text her the same stuff all the time, its really funny how all of them try to hit on her". I really haven't flirted with her yet, and I don't really know what to do ever since her friend told me that. What should I do? Any quick advice?


    Man I love texting, yeah sure granted when I got in the game I was a little old fashioned and preferred calling an HB or give up after a few texts that went unanswered but lately I have been nailing it. The last 3 girls in a row won't stop texting me. One convo carried on for 3 or 4 days. My current convo started at 12pm and is still carrying right now. Girls like texting too much and was wearing me out. Now though I think trying new things is really getting me somewhere.


    Do what I do go for the Day 2. This is what kept me in the in with these 3 girls and got me on a bit of a hot streak. Before though it was horrible my texting abysmal. I would try to text funny, cute, sweet, cocky, boring, normal, weird stuff all the time and could never successfully ping. Now I am just myself and go for the Day 2 like right away or very soon. This method has worked wonders for me and kept me focused on the goal and kept the girls I was talking to engaged. Just got an HB I met last night to go with me to an original day game spot I had picked out and she agreed to meet up with me there. If it goes through my first Day 2 in the game ever and my first date in 10 years! Wow so ecstatic since the spell might be broken. Thought asking girls out over text for dates was weak but with all the phone games they have been plaing lately with not answering the phone, waiting for a callback, should I leave a vm, I never thought texting was a good strategy for a meet up but it is working wonders for me and going to keep imploying these strategy with future dates.


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