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    Default Randomly unknown added hb8.5 by mistake and she accepted. Next steps?

    Hey guys, I'd like your input on this:

    So, believe it or not, I actually added this HB 8.5 as a FB friend by accident on my phone... I hate this thing. Anyway, within a half hour, she accepted the request. We have one mutual friend in common, but I wouldn't say I'm THAT close with the guy to get info.

    So now its been a few hours and am thinking of what to write. I don't want any of those cheesy canned openers that reek of "pick up". Any thoughts?

    Thinking something like:

    Hey (name), believe it or not, I added you by complete accident while scrolling fb on my phone lol. Since you accepted my embarrassing mistake, figured I'd say hi!

    Obviously I'm not signing off on that, but it's a start and would love to get some guidance! Thanks guys!

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    Default Re: Randomly unknown added hb8.5 by mistake and she accepted. Next steps?

    Hey guys, so here's an update. She responded within 5 mins of getting my opener and usually replies every 5 mins, where I go about every 10-15:

    ME: Hey (name), sorry for the random add haha. I swear it was intentional lol... How's your day going so far?

    HER: Hi, it's great so far, only cause it's Friday! How's your day going?

    ME: Alright, but my days never end... I work everyday, cause my boss is an asshole lol. Where do you work?

    HER: Aww that sux! I work at (company) in (position), u?

    ME: I recently launched a (industry) company... Which unfortunately makes me the asshole lol

    HER: Lol nice, well its better you are the asshole than working for someone else.

    ME: Lol true. I'm obviously exaggerating, I'm not an asshole... Unless my mother lied to me all these years... How long you been working there?

    Just sent the last one

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    Default Re: Randomly added HB8.5 by mistake and she accepted. Next steps?

    Hey guys, another update:

    After about a full day and a half of comfort building on fb messaging, I number closed. Here's a quick look at the convo leading up to it:

    [... a lot of back and forth]

    ME: What happened to ur phone?
    HER: Lost all my contacts... But its ok. I'll get the important ones back and I already have all my pics saved on my laptop
    ME: That's good! Well, maybe if ur nice, I'll give u my number to add in there
    HER: Lol oh really, well if ur nice I might actually add it in What did u do last night?

    [... convo about our nights. Light and keeping the humour and slight negging for few hours]

    ME: Lol anyways gonna go to bed. Got an early meeting. But I think u've been nice enough to get my number lol
    HER: haha sure. Don't I feel special :0 lol
    ME: Haha I detect sarcasm... Should I change my mind?
    HER: Lol hey no sarcasm that face is saying omg! It's not mean so its ok
    ME: (my number)
    HER: Thnx mine is (her number). Have a good night!

    So there u have it in a nutshell. Thought to test out giving mine "if she impressed me enough", where I was expecting reciprocation. Worked and I'll be texting her in about a day or two

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    Default Re: Randomly unknown added hb8.5 by mistake and she accepted. Next steps?

    Usually I'm not into facebook/websites,but overall your convo went well.

    I don't see anything besides comfort though,you got her number that's good,you should start flirting more.

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    Default Re: Randomly unknown added hb8.5 by mistake and she accepted. Next steps?

    Hey guys, here's another update:

    So after NC, started playfully flirting and texting throughout the entire day and night. The next morning she initiated the convo which eventually led to her bragging about her high tolerance to alcohol:

    me: High tolerance? Hmm I might have to test this statement...
    her: Test it! I'm game
    me: Ur on. Friday. 9:08pm sharp.
    her: 9:08pm sharp lol
    me: Ya 9:08pm sharp and not a minute later. And we'll test this "high tolerance" theory of urs lol
    her: I aint scared!

    And so on... Basically everyday leading up to the date, she initiated the texting, where on the night before the date I called her up. Spoke for bout 2 hours. And then the day of, she initiated again.

    The date went very well - drinks. No KC however. After the date, it led to a few more days of her initiating (I haven't started a convo since I first texted her). I set up a dinner date for the next day, which she quickly agreed to.

    Had another great night and KC when I dropped her off. During the date she already set up another one for the coming weekend (basically bringing her friends and mine together at a bar).

    Today was the first day I initiated since the first text, things still going well, but she's got a slightly dry personality that makes it a little hard to read every now and then. But I usually keep her laughing and do the occasional push/pull technique to keep her guessing. Well see how this weekend goes!


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