We are in long distance relationship with my GF. Everything is ok, except she talks way too much about herself. Sometimes when I ask something, I have to ask/say same thing about 10 times that she answers or remembers the thing. She talks always about herself instead of me when we are having conversation.
When she is with her friends she only talks about me. She really likes me.
I told about the problem that she talks too much instead of paying attention to me. Always... Instead of constructive disscussion she starts to "Im so shit GF!" After that she has to "calm down" alone or she changes subject. It leads to nothing. We simply cannot talk constructively if I say something negative feedback she goes butthurt and starts selfblame.
Should I totally freeze up when she starts to talking about herself and she ain't listening? How am I able to make her listen and to think things constructively what I've said? Is there any way to speak about negative things without butthurt?
What should I do for better for constructive conversation and listening?