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Thread: An old friend messaged me on Facebook after she found me on Match.com

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    Default An old friend messaged me on Facebook after she found me on Match.com

    Hey guys. So, I recently reconnected with an old friend of mine at my 10 year high school reunion. As she was leaving the reunion, she said to let her know the next time I go out. I didn't get her number though, because I was hanging out with three other chicks at the moment. Yesterday she messaged me on Facebook after finding my profile on Match.com. I'm not really interested in dating her, but I wouldn't mind farking her.

    So, with that, how does the response I'm thinking of sending her sound?

    Her message:
    ARCHARD! We're both on match.com!!! Hahaha! I saw that you checked out my profile...
    Have you gone on any dates from match?

    (I noticed her when running searches, but I'm pretty sure I didn't actually view her profile...)

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    What I'm thinking of responding with:
    Hey (name). Yeah, good ol' match.com. I've been on some dates and met some pretty cool women. I've also met some pretty strange women. It's definitely been interesting...

    What about you? Have you met any interesting guys, or are all the other dudes on match boring and just seem to be clueless? Haha.

    So, I'll let you know next time I go out to the Hofbrau or downtown-ish, I'm sure it'll be soon. Ha. I don't have your number though. My cell is xxx-xxx-xxxx. What's yours?

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    Default Re: An old friend messaged me on Facebook after she found me on Match.com

    your responses are not bad at all but i don't like the part about comparing other guys.
    simply start a new thread that is fun and engaging.build attraction.make statement about you and ask her how her life has been drifting into an emotionally charged conversation.

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    Default Re: An old friend messaged me on Facebook after she found me on Match.com

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    your responses are not bad at all but i don't like the part about comparing other guys.
    simply start a new thread that is fun and engaging.build attraction.make statement about you and ask her how her life has been drifting into an emotionally charged conversation.
    Thanks for the response HardRock. After reading what you said, I agree about comparing other guys. It doesn't sound as good as I originally thought.

    She recently just got back to Texas after backpacking Europe with her sister for the last year or so. We talked a little about her trip at the reunion, so I brought that back in to the conversation.

    Here's the modified version:
    Hey (name). Yeah, good ol' match.com. I've been on some dates and met some cool women. I've also met some pretty strange women. It's definitely been interesting... Haha. How's your experience been?

    We talked a bit about your Europe adventure, but tell me some more about it. Where all did you travel to? What was your favorite destination?

    So, I'll let you know next time I go out to the Hofbrau or downtown-ish, I'm sure it'll be soon. Ha. I don't have your number though. My cell is xxx-xxx-xxxx. What's yours?

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    Default Re: An old friend messaged me on Facebook after she found me on Match.com

    Your not interested in dating her but you wouldn't mind farking her.

    Well, you will probably need to go on at least one date with her to do this. Try to get her to meet you at your place and suggest you go some place close by or see if you can invite her in for a bit. Go slow. Invite her in so she can get comfortable then suggest you go out for a drink that is close by then get her back to your place. She will be less likely to object if she has already been there and knows what your place looks like.

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    Default Re: An old friend messaged me on Facebook after she found me on Match.com

    Thanks for the advice Mystik, I like your idea.

    So, I sent her the revised message I posted above. Now, I'll just see how it goes.

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    Default Re: An old friend messaged me on Facebook after she found me on Match.com

    It will take some practice as well as calibrating. Try to escalate physically as soon as possible too.

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    Default Re: An old friend messaged me on Facebook after she found me on Match.com

    So, I sent the message above. She ignored the questions about her travels, but gave me her number.

    I'm gonna invite her next time I go out for a drink and take it from there.

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    Default Re: An old friend messaged me on Facebook after she found me on Match.com

    Good luck to you and good luck with the farking.


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