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Thread: Can she change?

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    Default Can she change?

    I have known this girl for 2-3 weeks now. I would like to make her my gf for the moment but i have problems even when i have to introduce her to my friends. She has some good qualities and bad ones. First bad thing is her teeth. He has something black there. Second thing is hair. It has nice colorbut she hasnt been in barbershop for while. Shes also has gained some weight last few years i have heard. All these things could be fixed, how can i tell her to try to get her sh1t together in order to be my gf. Im considering dumpin her right now cause i have other options too. She is shy.
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    Default Re: Can she change?

    If you like her, why would you want her to change. And just tell her what's on your mind. She might be mad af or she might take it to mind and go for it. But don't introduce her to your friends if you're ashamed of her.
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    Default Re: Can she change?

    Take her as is. I'm sure you would feel like crap if so soon after you got your gf that she started going over a list of things she doesn't like about you and that you need to change.

    This will sound cliché, but real change comes from within. If she likes her body the way it is then why would she change for you? If she sees no issue with her hair then the same thing. Why would she change that just cause you don't like it.

    Pick a gf because you like everything about her as is. Not because you want to change her into your idea of "better."
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: Can she change?

    I had "maybe we should be friends" talk with her. She didnt take it too good and I think we wont be friends thats for sure I did not say to her that im dumping her although that might sounded like it. If she wants to see me again I just try to explain I´m not ready for LTR right now.

    I just have to deal with it, I hope I will find gf I can show to my friends :P
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