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    taylor.matthew is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Should I text her or wait for her? Am I over thinking this?

    I got this girls number about a week ago I guess and we were talking pretty well for a few days and then I ended the conversation in a way that put starting the next one on her. It went something like "Hey I'm gonna crash, gotta be up early text me sometime tomorrow" she gave just a normal "okay, night!"

    Anyways the next day passed which was yesterday and its evening time now. At what point should I just go ahead and text her?

    Any other general texting tips are appreciated.

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    Default Re: Should I text her or wait for her? Am I over thinking this?

    Just text her like normal, you're over thinking this.

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    Default Re: Should I text her or wait for her? Am I over thinking this?

    Wait one more day to see if she responds. If she doesn't then start a new thread with a text.

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    Default Re: Should I text her or wait for her? Am I over thinking this?

    Over thinking it definitely

    Also, when you say, text me tomorrow sometime... it says, "ok I want you to text me"... when a girl says that to me, I know she wants me to initiate a conversation.

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    Default Re: Should I text her or wait for her? Am I over thinking this?

    Yeah, you definitely gave her the power here. To get it back you need to knock her Social Status down a notch. Haha, totally kidding. I'd wait a day like Dave said, give her a little time to work. If that doesn't happen go ahead and text her like normal.

    Your post already suggests that you are over thinking this. Do your best to try and forget about the text exchange all together. Then at a moment when you have forgotten about it fire one out. Your brain will be relieved of the worry (even if its momentarily) and you won't be over thinking your text.

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    Default Re: Should I text her or wait for her? Am I over thinking this?

    Yah, you've over thought it. Girls will do that all the time. One girl I've been texting atm will tell me her work hours like everytime we stop talking. First time I tried texting her 30 mins before she got off telling her we could chat later if I wasnt busy. No response. Texted her midday two days later, had a fun flirty convo. And at the end she told me agian what time she would be working until. But this time I just didn't even bother since she didnt answer last time. If she does it again i will try again but sometimes you have to 'punish' them as well for not responding. Nothing extreme and don't send any texts indicating or hinting it's going on. Just play along and keep her attention periodically. You'll do fine. DO set up dates here and there though. Suggest you're jonesin for something whether it be food, activity, whatever and invite her out for a specific night and time and if she declines because she's busy shrug it off, and if she comes that's good. If she just says no, then you at least know where the relationship stands lol.

    Note: make your next text opening fresh, dont linger on the past convo, and make it fun - something she'll respond to. I typically avoid teasing them about not responding before or ever texting back. Generally that gives off the impression of neediness, unless they had flaked on a date I wouldnt do it.

    Anyway be funny man. Just make something up. "Hey, just saw a naked lady wearing just a top hat. Reminded me of you: a wild sophisticate. How's your day going?"

    Anything but mundane and you should be okay. Once you start talking try to keep making a few things up. Play off what she says and make something funny up about her. I always like to ask them questions I know they will say 'no' to, but in a leading way. So if she mentions lets say alcohol. You can at anytime interject with "so I take it you are usually the most calm and collected girl at the bar. Just shy as ever."

    When she denies that, because it's most likely inaccurate you can slippery slope in a sense and tease her: "oh so then you're saying you DO have a wild side! Interesting. ----*random question*---"

    If you can text her like that and be fun and semi flirty even when she stopped responding to you before you last talked, then you know she's at least still somewhat interested. A girl will simply not play into your fun AT ALL if she's done talking to you completely. Sounds redundant. That's because it is.

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    taylor.matthew is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Should I text her or wait for her? Am I over thinking this?

    Thanks guys these are good answers. I pretty much already knew it in my head but I guess its just nice see if others agree. I've decided to take it as a sort of shit test. She wants to see if I get needy when she doesn't talk to me. I'll give her another day or two and them make her laugh a bit. No worries...

    Thanks bros


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