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    mike.wow89 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Texting Conversation Help Please

    Me: It was good meeting you
    two days later..

    girl: whos this

    me: its "name" we met at mojitos on Sunday night . i'm the russian who could dance very well lol.

    girl: haha oh hey

    me:I thought you looked enchanting that night and i wanna take time to get to know your personality .

    Do you guys thinking I went to direct on this text? She hasn't replied yet. Any ideas on maybe how I could have done this better? Thank you.

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    Default Re: Texting Conversation Help Please

    I think that was good for direct but you have to remember; you just met the girl so you're just one of those guys who she danced with and then you come up calling her enchanting and basically kissing her arse. ( she just met you so the word enchanting was probably a little too And comes off as needy). On the other hand I may be wrong and she was probably busy or whatever. Do not text her again if she doesn't text you back. Just give it a couple of days or whatever you want and restart everything like that mistake never happened. Don't talk about the past just reonitiate with her.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Texting Conversation Help Please

    Quote Originally Posted by mike.wow89 View Post
    me:I thought you looked enchanting that night and i wanna take time to get to know your personality .
    This is probably a dead give away that you really don't want to take time to get to know her. And because you said it she has to believe that you actually want something from her in the first place to make this case (her vagina). Try and get to know her personality but don't tell her you want to, unless she's shown a glimpse and you actually approve.

    Reset. Wait a couple days before firing off another one. In these situations, I've actually started going for a phone call. Wait later in the evening when she will most likely be available and you may catch her off guard. Then you can work your charm over the phone, which will have a much greater impact. If she doesn't answer, try texting something like "aw you seemed like so much fun, guess I'll have to go find another dancing partner."

    I'm just experimenting with this and only tried it once (no luck) but I'm sure it will eventually catch.

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    Default Re: Texting Conversation Help Please

    Texting is so easy now IMO. Not a sticking point for me right now. I just go for Dates, Meet ups, hook Ups, and when I am feeling out of it I just see how they are doing. Do a little bit of leading on and trying to learn to flirt but yeah texting and getting responses is a non-issue for me right now (As I know if I text a girl the convo will carry all day so I avoid it unless my interest is like through the roof lol). If you want help go for a Meet Up, Date, Hook Up, or just text them to see how they are doing and try to lead them on it will keep them coming back for more. Oh and when they say something fun just try to play around with it and flirt. Another thing that has helped me greatly is not texting everyday. I froze out this girl and hit her up 4 days later and never have a problem getting her to text me. It's easier now mainly because I am probably worn out and don't text as much as I used to but unless I am bored, want to hang out, or just want to increase attraction. Simple stuff but yeah texting used to be my sticking point. I used to fear getting the # because I sucked at texting you just need to be unpredictable by leading them on, doing constant freeze outs, going for meet ups, and flirting when they are acting silly.


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