I have no idea in which direction I should go with this HB.
We know each other since primary/elementary school. We went to the same secondary school too, then our ways separated.
After 5 years, during the finals she postet a problem with her Italian final and asked me, if I could help her, although there a plenty colleagues who are as good or even better with the Italian language.
So our conversations started and are going on till now. I haven't known how to text properly with girls, so there was plenty of q&a and sh1t, but also nice conversations and she often responded with more than a few lines or changed the thread.
But I have no idea what her intentions are. Friendship or something more. I wouldn't mind friendship, wouldn't mind something more. She also has very much male friends, which some are ex-boyfriends. So she may be a tester (I haven't completed pandoras box yet^^).
Here are some pieces of conversation, translated from German to English. I don't want to waste something more than friendship, but wouldn't like to destroy a friendship. So it is difficult for rAFCs like me to act properly.
me: Someone seems to have a day off?
her: hey nooo i am on sick leave-.-
me Oh. What happened?
me: Uh. Get well soon! That's what happens, if you care more for other people than for your own. [note: she's a paramedic]
her: you have a point there (:
me: Nothing really worth mentioning^^ If I had gotten my schedule from university already, I would have a sideline [note: secondary job] by now. But nooo I'll get it only after the application closing date xD
her: oijeee .. what do you want to have as sideline?
me:Anything that gets me money xD But you cannot apply for a job without knowing your schedule^^
And what does a paramedic do while being on sick leave? Treat yourself?^^
her: yeees you have a point there (;
hhm nothing just lying around -.-
youu? are you at the lake
me: No alone it's broing. And that friends of mine who would go with me to the lake are all busy with work, the duty at Austrian Armed Forces or international vacations. But the terrace is nice too. You could listen to music or something?^^
her: yeees music is on (; if I weren't ill we could go to the lake immediately (;
me: That's right. Just let me know when you are well again.
me: [sent her a fun post about a b00b adjuster for model shootings]
Best sideline EVER
her: hahahaha (; is this job paid well
me: I think, I wouldn't give a sh1t about the payment xD
her: haha (;
me: Are you well yet? [note: It is hard to translate from the Salzburger dialect. This sentence is always said with a funny undertone. And always understood as funny.]
48 minutes ago
me: Oh... But at least you aren't bored anymore? Are you entertained by something?^^
her: yes sleeping (:
me: Alone? [note: maybe here I should have winked with ""?]
her: haha no with my cat
Every advice for further steps is welcomed