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Thread: Should I confirm or wait?

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    Default Should I confirm or wait?

    A girl message me on POF yesterday so obviously very interested, we chatted I teased and eventually got a date under the circumstances that he doesn't try to kidnap me (one of my favorite things to say to a girl pre date) I told her I was only free Saturday day and said we'd meet at 1. She instantly agreed with an added smiley and than asked where we would meet. I told her I wasn't sure yet but id figure it out. We talked a little more than I let the convo end. Our dates supposed to be tomorrow but I haven't told her where yet, I hate "Confirming dates" the night before, very beta, but seeing as I didn't give her a location obviously we have to talk before again. Seeing as the dates early in the day should I go ahead and confirm tonight, wait until noon tomorrow or wait it out until she asks where were meeting. I feel like when you "confirm" it gives girls an opportunity to flake, its like saying are you sure you want to go out? But I think this is an exception,
    Any help is appreciated

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    Default Re: Should I confirm or wait?

    Maybe be direct, and confirm it tonight.

    For example, "This place tomorrow, 1 PM."

    That way, you're almost telling her to come tomorrow without giving her any idea of flaking (she seems like she really likes you, so she probably won't flake). And you won't strike up a long conversation about it as well.

    Just my opinion!
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: Should I confirm or wait?

    That's exactly what I was leaning towards, great minds think alike

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    Default Re: Should I confirm or wait?

    I would try use the same bait you used to pick her up:

    "Hey crazy kidnapper, tomorrow 1pm at the XYZ restaurant 123 Main Street. Don't try anything funny I am onto you "

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    Default Re: Should I confirm or wait?

    Dave and Ed are spot on.

    If she does however ask where to meet you can brush her off and confirm with something like...

    "I don't want you scouting out all my favourite spots so you can track me down do I? How about "Location"? It's nice, friendly, out in the open, low possibility of kidnapping"

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    Default Re: Should I confirm or wait?

    Thanks y'all, I basically said what Dave posted except I left out the address and told her to bring her walking shoes instead of dont try anything funny, I'm taking her for ice cream and a arboretum tour so more date appropriate. Oh and also I told her to meet me at 1:03, its quirkier, didnt get a response yet but I'm pretty sure she works nights. Thanks again

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    Default Re: Should I confirm or wait?

    Rule #1: NEVER surrender power.

    people who answered your message are right, you must be direct. It is not a confirmation, you are calling the shot. Thats what alpha males do. Good luck!


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