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    Question She responds that she deleted my number

    Picked this girl up summer before last, had really good times off and on all summer, but got involved with someone else and lost touch. Sent her a txt recently about an upcoming opportunity, and got back a positive answer, followed by the "btw, who is this?", which is to be expected with so much time passing. Played it off, no problem. A little later I get "oh. I deleted your number."

    What to say to that? Is there a way to play it off, or dhv?

    Could just ignore her, but I'd like to get back to good. Need to get some paperwork off of her at some point (yeah, shouldn't have mixed business and pleasure, but whatcha gonna do? it's a networking world... )

    No clue the reason for the delete. Could be just too much time passed, or my ex may have said something nasty to her last year!

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    Default Re: She responds that she deleted my number

    Hmm, this is interesting.

    Either just pretend she didn't say that, or maybe let her go.

    And she might have deleted it cause indeed a lot of time passed. Maybe give her the benefit of the doubt.
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: She responds that she deleted my number

    Hmm, this is interesting.

    Either just pretend she didn't say that, or maybe let her go.

    And she might have deleted it cause indeed a lot of time passed. Maybe give her the benefit of the doubt.
    Thanks for your help.

    Yeah, like I said, if I didn't want to keep cordial professional relations I'd let her go in a new york minute (and probably will anyway without a better plan). She was a lot of fun, but I have no one-itis on that one (or anyone these days).

    So give her the benefit of the doubt as in assuming the delete was a mistake? Makes sense, we were on good terms I thought last we spoke. I would totally give this girl the benefit of the doubt ...but the ex, not so much. I don't know and probably shouldn't care what she may have said to her, but if it was something like that, it seems like a positive thing to be able to clear the air and let her know the ex wasn't speaking for me. But who knows what really happened...

    I guess I'll just message her sometime and, like you say, pretend she never said that. It's just it was weird: no explanation, she did not say "do not contact me" or anything else, so left kinda hanging there ambiguous.

    Just didn't know if there was some other approach that would play it off better, make a joke of it or something.

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    Default Re: She responds that she deleted my number

    Personally I'd plow through but that's just me.

    "Looks like you'll have to get to know me all over again."

    Whenever I'm stuck i just turn up the confidence and plow.

    But whatever you do, just dont react to it - brush it off, ignore the comment, whatever. If you get worked up about it it'll just confirm to her that you're not worth the time and effort.

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    Default Re: She responds that she deleted my number

    Good advice.

    Yeah, I only am worked up because she left it so ambiguous. But I'm damn sure never going to let HER know I'm worked up! :P

    I don't know about the "get to know all over again", usually good, but not on this one, my gut says. Definitely agree on plow and confidence. Will just have to see what happens when I have a good reason to contact her again I guess.

    Thanks.

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    Default Re: She responds that she deleted my number

    I'd say something like "Yeah I deleted yours too. Let's get coffee at Mapel and Main Street."

    Basically hitting her back with her own Sh1t Test and giving her an address (if she asks for further details on the address then consider that her complying to a compliance test and tell her whatever coffee shop you want to meet her at)

    P.s. pick a coffee shop that is conducive to talking about how interesting the neighborhood is:

    Coffee shop > Walking tour of area > Dinner > Drinks > Yours/Her place > Sexytime
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    Default Re: She responds that she deleted my number

    Autismus has it right. (30 char)
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.


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