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    McMatt891 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Recovering from bad first date

    Hey, I am a first time user on this forum. I went on a date last night with a girl I met at work (yesterday was also my last day working there). At the beginning of the date things went really well. She was laughing at my jokes and impressions, plus I was asking all the right questions in a non-interrogative way. We went on a movie date, which I know is a bad first date idea but she wanted to see the new despicable me. After the movie ended she just seemed very quiet and a little less responsive. This morning I happened to run into her at starbucks and the situation seemed pretty awkward from my perspective. I don't know what the issue is exactly, but if anyone has any tips on how to fix this please let me know. Also, how long till I should contact and should I text or call?

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    Default Re: Recovering from bad first date

    As you said a movie date is a BAD idea for the first few dates.

    You can't converse or run game in the theater because the focus is on the movie and not your partner.

    Most times you will come across as a BETA to the ALPHA actor who is performing on the screen. Whether you like it or not it's a subtle form of dlv associated with you on subconscious level.

    After she sees a tough romantic, athletic actor is who is perfection in her eyes as portrayed by Hollywood then nothing will come close to matching it right after the movie. She will compare you to that actor.

    Coffee,drinks and activity dates ONLY.

    I would just freeze her out for a few days then tell her you are going out for a drink and she should come. Tell her don't ASK her.

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