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Thread: Made out all night -- no replies back.

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    Default Made out all night -- no replies back.

    Hi all!

    I'm new here (as a registered user), but have been lurking for a while. I will stop by and introduce myself, but hope you guys are able to help me out with a situation.

    Met a HB8 from a mutual friend, got MAD IOIs at a bar we were at. She then left without saying bye to meet with a friend at a different bar 30mins away. Later on that night we all meet up again. We dance most of the night, and eventually make out. Everything was going perfect. Left the bar, went to get food back at our friend's place, and that's the end of it.

    Me being a bit tipsy texted her something along the lines of: "cuddle session going on at XXX place" -- still punching myself for saying that stupid line. No reply back.

    The next day I sent a quick text saying I had a good time and that it was nice meeting her (boring, again -- I know).

    Still no reply...

    Where did I mess up? Should I wait a few more days and text back something cocky/funny?

    Any and all feedback welcome please!

    EDIT: she lives out of state

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    Default Re: Made out all night -- no replies back.

    The cuddle session line more than likely killed you.

    Then the following text you sent the next day (particularly after that cuddle line) most definitely killed you lol.

    All in all, after you got food back at your friend's place, you should have said goodbye and that you were looking forward to meeting her again (then texted her in the next couple or so days).

    At this point, either let her go, or wait a few days and send something cocky/funny (see if she responses).
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: Made out all night -- no replies back.

    I know, she just seemed so interested in me all night that I kind of let my game slip.

    I'm really taken with her, would like to try again before I let the whole situation thing go into the proverbial abyss.

    could 1-2 texts really mess it all up that much?

    one thing is for certain, my next reply will have to for sure be alpha w/ cocky and funny and try to hook her attn once more. Any ideas?

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    Default Re: Made out all night -- no replies back.

    Quote Originally Posted by Duravi View Post

    could 1-2 texts really mess it all up that much?
    From experience, yes.

    Depending on the person, even sending one wrong text screws up everything regardless of what you did prior.
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: Made out all night -- no replies back.

    What im seeing man happens all too often to me, you probably got a little too toasted. You said the wrong thing, which wouldn't have been as bad since she was probably a little shwasted too, but the AFC line the next day is what kicked the bucket for you I think. Plus if she lives out of state, I say cut your losses and move along, you always have the make out with the girl, just some lessons learned under the belt

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    Default Re: Made out all night -- no replies back.

    New rule for aspiring pua's... DON'T DRINK AND TEXT.

    And never be boring. Something funny or completely random may work if it has implied significance. Once with a collegiate softball player I was losing interest and let two days slip without a response. I texted her something stupid like "how far is it to first base in regulation softball? Super important :P" she responded something stupid and I replied with normal (pua type) gaming/conversation. And I never told her why it was important (because it wasn't).
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    Default Re: Made out all night -- no replies back.

    Hey guys, thank you so much for the replies back.

    I've been busy this week talking and hanging with other girls which kept my mind off of her, but I'd like to text her back now and see if this thing can ever go anywhere.

    I was thinking of this opener (that I saw and liked from a thread here too -- and it works because her last name is related)

    "Hey there, hope the knightdom's in great shape today ;-). I was out in [XXX location where we met before] the other day and you'll never guess what happened...."

    To sum things up from previous posts, I need this text to make me look NOT needy, or depict me as an AFC -- which I managed to do with my other 2 texts to her. What do you think of what I came up with, anything to add or delete?

    Cheers!

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    Default Re: Made out all night -- no replies back.

    Me being a bit tipsy texted her something along the lines of: "cuddle session going on at XXX place" -- still punching myself for saying that stupid line. No reply back.
    Dude you kinda messed thing up
    as a guy who has told a girl i liked her as in shown intent and then forgot and was gaming her AGAIN.you need to save this relation FAST.
    The fact that she was not into that text says a lot.I mean two friends making out why not respond to that.She liked you.take that with a grain of salt.

    Text her something along the lines of this.
    the other parts of my statement and a prelude to a story via text got put off that day.i mean xxx text

    When you do this via text then you should text her later...make sure its emotionally charged
    What the last text should do is wonder whether maybe she was not right about her conclusion and then decide to choose another option if she may.If you fail to handle this properly not will never have that side of her.
    she may have felt that once you were done you just hopped on to the next.that could damage your chances for life.calling too isn't an option.Once you handle this the FLOOD GATES WILL OPEN.you attracted her once

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    Default Re: Made out all night -- no replies back.

    Hiya HardRock, thanks for the reply mate. I'm not sure I understand what you mean that I should text her, though.

    Would you mind explaining again please?


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    Default Re: Made out all night -- no replies back.

    Text her something along the lines of this.
    "the other parts of my statement and a prelude to a story via text got trunc that day.i mean xxx text"

    The above text should get her open to maybe the fact that it may not be what she supposed.because well it was not.this is key.


    When you do this via text then you should text her later...make sure its emotionally charged
    After sending this text wait for a day and a half and send your own personal reengaging text.if you prefer after a few hours.you could even call her.have a plan make sure you build more attraction.

    This text won't make you needy because your are being a loof as if you don't care and its not a 5 page letter explaining yourself.To even notice that thing is a strength some what.it implies one pays attention to women feelings.


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