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    Default Follow-up message online dating

    Hi all,

    I was wondering how a good follow-up message should look like... Didn't really find anything on the forum so thought I'd ask

    You know the thing: you send a message to a girl on an online dating site but after several days to a week no reply yet, even though she's come online since you sent the message.

    So I thought sending a follow-up message could increase my chances to get in contact with some of those girls...

    But what should it look like?

    Is it something like:
    Hey [name]!
    noticed you didn't reply my message yet, but I'm sure you simply forgot because of all the other messages you received.
    I was just wondering how [experience you asked for in your first message] had been.
    Thanks

    I know the phrasing isn't great but i'm in a hurry at the moment

    Hope to get some great replies here!


    Thanks

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    PUAHollywood is offline Banned
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    Default Re: Follow-up message online dating

    Phoenix30. A good followup message should include relevant information from the initial message. Girls like when you show persistence, and if you keep on it, your results will improve! Good luck...

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    Default Re: Follow-up message online dating

    Quote Originally Posted by Phoenix30 View Post
    Hi all,

    I was wondering how a good follow-up message should look like... Didn't really find anything on the forum so thought I'd ask

    You know the thing: you send a message to a girl on an online dating site but after several days to a week no reply yet, even though she's come online since you sent the message.

    So I thought sending a follow-up message could increase my chances to get in contact with some of those girls...

    But what should it look like?

    Is it something like:
    Hey [name]!
    noticed you didn't reply my message yet, but I'm sure you simply forgot because of all the other messages you received.
    I was just wondering how [experience you asked for in your first message] had been.
    Thanks

    I know the phrasing isn't great but i'm in a hurry at the moment

    Hope to get some great replies here!


    Thanks

    That is what an AFC would do.

    Girls online have hundreds of messages per day and they only select a few to respond to.

    Your first message didn't measure up so DON'T remind her of that. Give her a bit of time and then take a second run with a totally new message that contains some info you got from her pics/profile. Try to inject some humor into the message.


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