Re: Need help to not becoming close friend.
If she feels like things are rushing too quickly, then you probably have not done enough to build up rapport. I would agree in taking things down a notch. In addition, you should start going back to try and build up more rapport with her. Remember, it's also okay to break rapport when you don't agree with her on something.
Unless she has stopped responding to your messages, and unless she has stopped saying yes to your invites, then you have not lost her yet. You still have a shot with her, so don't worry too much about it.
With that being said, I am interested in hearing more as well.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X