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    Default 2nd date no kiss, but she "had fun"

    So I went on a first date the other day and I gotta say I played it like a fiddle this solid 8 was all over me that night and asked me if she was going to get a second date. I teased her than agreed to a 2nd date. She text me at three separate times everyday between the dates wishing me a an awesome day in the mornings and even text me at 3 am the morning before to tell me she was do excited. We went on the date and made dinner at my house and everything was great, we watched a movie and cuddled after dinner and about half way through I kinoed and went for the kiss, I was almost sure I'd get it and even held brushed her hair back and had "the stare" we hung in that awkward not kissing area for a second and than she didn't go all in and said "it's only the second date" I kind just let her go laid back and acted standoffish, figuring at this point I should just move on, she looked at me and said I think I should leave which I replied with a "peace" she looked at me and said "really peace" and I was like yea why and she said well you won't come cuddle with me so I pulled her over and we cuddle and had great conversation the rest of the night and even had a few "staring into each others eyes moments." She even initiated holding hands a bunch of times.After the movie she asked me to walk her out and she lingered for a moment looking at me but obviously I'm not gonna go for a kiss so l just looked at her while she lingered and she said I had alot of fine and I said did ya now and she giggled said yes gave me a hug and held it for a few seconds than said your such a fun cuddler and squeezed me, than backed off and lingered for another second than left. At one point I made a joke about our awkward kiss exchange and I think it maybe made her feel like she farked up for not kissing me but I'm not sure. In my experience, when this happens there's rarely another date but I know this girls conservative sexually and told myself not to go for the kiss before the date since I knew this but it seems like this girl was lingering around and still wanted to see me. Sorry for how long this is but do you think I should next this girl or try for a third date? Do y'all think there will even be a third date? Thanks y'all.

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    Default Re: 2nd date no kiss, but she "had fun"

    She just doesn't want to seem like a slut is all. I think you have a third date with her for sure. Just keep making yourself a challenge and let her chase you a bit.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: 2nd date no kiss, but she "had fun"

    The statement that tells is all to me is "half way through I kinoed".... Why? From the first second you shake hands, touch arms, touch her back to direct her when walking, there are a million non-sexual ways to Kino. Start early and keep going. I won't even sit across from a woman because your starting with NO physical momentum. Keep the kiss from being a cinematic "moment" and just another small step in progression. Even with conservative girls, it REALLY isn't a big deal (even in my AFC days I'd kissed dozens).
    Last edited by KristiBell; 07-24-2013 at 07:44 AM.
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    Default Re: 2nd date no kiss, but she "had fun"

    Thebob: I appreciate yollr input, really I do, but I did Kino with her on the first and second dates ALOT; I just didnt find it necessary to mention it. First date I had my hand on the small of her back the whole walk and second date I held her hips while I taught her to cook almost like in the fashion of someone teaching pool. So kino wasnt the issue, moving in on an obviously conservative girl was the issue

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    Default Re: 2nd date no kiss, but she "had fun"

    You know the girl then, seems like you answered your own question there lol. I have to say being from the northeast conservative girls aren't my thing... Good luck!
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