Re: How to answer to this sh!t test?
This is looking WAY better than before. Good job man. However, from where it was, way better puts it at decent. The conversation is lacking any luster and excitement. Besides the first one, which didn't require any investment in a response at all on her part, you are asking questions with potential, but your immediate second messages are ruining their potential, especially the ones with more questions. Your goal is to carry out a fun discourse, not play a game of 20 Questions Boring Edition.
I would also say bringing any reference back to your mistakes of before is not a good idea. Like you said, it's stalkerish, and in your case with how you screwed it up before, your goal should be to simply move on from it. It should be a fresh, new start, not making someone dwell on the past.
On one last note, I have no idea what that routine is, but by the looks of it, it's a "pick one or the other" question. It doesn't require any investment at all on her part. You can easily make it better by getting her to give some detail on why she picked that choice.
You still have a shot with this, and to make things better for you would be easy. All you have to do is just stop the double messaging, avoid any more references to your previous interaction, and try to get her more engaged with entertaining questions and interactions.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X