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    Default Re: How to answer to this sh!t test?

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    It looks like a spam. Cause she send the same message to you again.
    I checked her pictures a month ago and some of her new pics now via google image search and tineye. She's legit.

    She actually rated me highly as well when she opened me up this time, Swagman. Not sure what to think lol.

    Only problem with this chick is, VERY short messages, and I mean very short. I'm not sure if this is how she is typing wise.. she's probably better in-person.

    Here's the new convo with her:


    Her: Hey my name is Maddie.

    Me: Hi, Maddie. How's everything?

    Her: Hi and good

    Me: Any fun weekend plans?

    Also, didn't you have another profile? You had your picture on another profile I believe.

    Her: Moving back to school and yep.

    Me: I knew I was right. Couldn't forget a face likes yours . What happened to your other profile? (thought I might have blown it here cause she might have thought of me as a stalker..but I guess not)

    You go to school in the city?

    Her: Thanks and deleted it. Also nope.

    Me: So I had a quick question. (One of my routine lines that I don't want to give away), You can only choose one, so pick wisely

    Her: Berries


    As you can see..REALLY short messages. I try to get her to open up a bit and nothing. How can I get her to open up more?

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    Default Re: How to answer to this sh!t test?

    This is looking WAY better than before. Good job man. However, from where it was, way better puts it at decent. The conversation is lacking any luster and excitement. Besides the first one, which didn't require any investment in a response at all on her part, you are asking questions with potential, but your immediate second messages are ruining their potential, especially the ones with more questions. Your goal is to carry out a fun discourse, not play a game of 20 Questions Boring Edition.

    I would also say bringing any reference back to your mistakes of before is not a good idea. Like you said, it's stalkerish, and in your case with how you screwed it up before, your goal should be to simply move on from it. It should be a fresh, new start, not making someone dwell on the past.

    On one last note, I have no idea what that routine is, but by the looks of it, it's a "pick one or the other" question. It doesn't require any investment at all on her part. You can easily make it better by getting her to give some detail on why she picked that choice.

    You still have a shot with this, and to make things better for you would be easy. All you have to do is just stop the double messaging, avoid any more references to your previous interaction, and try to get her more engaged with entertaining questions and interactions.
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    Default Re: How to answer to this sh!t test?

    That routine line I posted is actually pick one of these things, and then I give some detail about her based on what she chose. It has actually worked successfully. I mainly use it as an opener..but in this case I used it a few messages later as she opened me up.

    What do I do if I do what you said..but is still replies with such short messages? It's kinda deflating lol

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    Default Re: How to answer to this sh!t test?

    If she doesn't give you the due detail that should come with a question that requires that, then you know that she is just bored and looking for some people to message her. She won't invest any effort, as long as she knows that she is getting attention. Your best bet would be to just move on, because you won't get anything real out of her.
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    Default Re: How to answer to this sh!t test?

    This girl seems weird as fuck, she messaged you first and said hey my name is Maddie, she seems like one of those crazy Jesus girls or just a downright nut. Idk why that's just The Vibe I get from those really lackluster odd online girls. Most online gals are nuts to begin with. Either that of she's spam, but if she's not spam idk she just seems odd and probably not worth the work. Move on and stop sweating her

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    Default Re: How to answer to this sh!t test?

    Quote Originally Posted by Jts3443 View Post
    This girl seems weird as fark, she messaged you first and said hey my name is Maddie, she seems like one of those crazy Jesus girls or just a downright nut. Idk why that's just The Vibe I get from those really lackluster odd online girls. Most online gals are nuts to begin with. Either that of she's spam, but if she's not spam idk she just seems odd and probably not worth the work. Move on and stop sweating her
    One of her lines from her profile does she that she can be very emotional at times. I'm not saying she's a complete nut...but she does seem to have some crazy tendencies from the vibe I'm getting. I think she is actually on the site to find a LTR..but the way she's going about it seems very weird and awkward.

    If she continues to not put it any effort in the convo..then I'm ending the convo on my terms this time.

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    Default Re: How to answer to this sh!t test?

    I mean why even bother? If she is a dead horse and can't take a joke now how do you think she'll be in the future? Shell wind up having you a good little whipped boy who doesn't do or say anything naughty kind of like Ed helms character in the hangover. Is that the person you wanna be with anyway? whats so special about this girl that she deserves to be chased? because from what your describing she sounds about as unique and valuable as a cream cheese bagel. Raise your standards and just next this bitch for your own good

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    Default Re: How to answer to this sh!t test?

    dude my advice, just tone it down a notch and try to be more genuine. for me this is just like a very shallow conversation, it feels like youre just trying to hard to hard, and just spitting out lines at her.

    What i would do in this situation is something like this.

    "hey, look im sorry, i was being rude earlier. i was just a little nervous since a cute girl like you caught me off guard by messaging me first like that. but thanks i do appreciate you making our job easier" "Lets start over?"

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    Default Re: How to answer to this sh!t test?

    Quote Originally Posted by Frankthetank View Post
    dude my advice, just tone it down a notch and try to be more genuine. for me this is just like a very shallow conversation, it feels like youre just trying to hard to hard, and just spitting out lines at her.

    What i would do in this situation is something like this.

    "hey, look im sorry, i was being rude earlier. i was just a little nervous since a cute girl like you caught me off guard by messaging me first like that. but thanks i do appreciate you making our job easier" "Lets start over?"
    It's genuine and owning up to his mistakes, but I don't think it would change much in the interaction. This girl looks like her only goal is to be given attention, and feeding her more messages is only going to make her feel stronger.
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    Default Re: How to answer to this sh!t test?

    Quote Originally Posted by Swagman View Post
    It's genuine and owning up to his mistakes, but I don't think it would change much in the interaction. This girl looks like her only goal is to be given attention, and feeding her more messages is only going to make her feel stronger.
    What swagman said, being genuine usually only comes in handy AFTER you've attracted her which in this case he hasn't. It's more for establishing comfort and rapport. Plus going back on what you said makes you come off as weak inconsistent and only out I say what pleases her. Seriously, best case scenario is to just next this girl or if you want to proceed just bluntly ask her out somewhere, fuck it, you're already in the dog house with her if she says no than you're right back in the same boat if she agrees you turned around a bad situation, but stop hanging around and giving attention.


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