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    Exclamation She says she misses me? How to reply?

    Guys, this is a huge shot out of nowhere. Ok I just got a text at like 3:45 AM from this girl saying "Miss you tonight", nothing else. I used to go to OSU with her and we were the real deal, she got real into her sorority and I had another group of friends so we kinda fell off from each other, and then I transferred. Well a year or so ago she got a boyfriend, but never posts anything about him on facebook like all girls do or anything. We rarely speak now, every once and a while just a hey how are you doing kinda thing. So, getting this text has literally exploded my mind, I thought maybe she had gotten in a fight with him and they broke up but it says they are in a relationship, and thought maybe she is drunk but she doesn't drink really and the spelling was all correct. So what do I say to this girl when she says "Miss you tonight"? would really like the feedback cause I refuse to reply till I get your guys input! I don't want to say the wrong thing

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    Default Re: She says she misses me? How to reply?

    3:45? Probably a drunk booty call. Text back saying something like "Then let's go for coffee sometime. I'm real busy at the moment but I'm sure I can pen you in for an hour or two at (time, date)."

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    Default Re: She says she misses me? How to reply?

    Don't say that. The situation is too vague. Just say "No you don't." That's it. Let her prove it to you.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: She says she misses me? How to reply?

    Yeah I know I need to get her to prove it to me somehow, I was thinking maybe "yeah? what do you miss about me" that way she would have to prove that she is actually missing me and not just seeing what I would say or wanting attention, what do you think?

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    Default Re: She says she misses me? How to reply?

    Saying that relies too much on a response. If she was drunk and lost interest she'll ignore the text and you lose points. Saying "No you don't " doesn't require a response.
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    Default Re: She says she misses me? How to reply?

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    Saying that relies too much on a response. If she was drunk and lost interest she'll ignore the text and you lose points. Saying "No you don't " doesn't require a response.
    Ok, I see what your saying, but I haven't talked to her in so long, that line seems a little harsh to me, not mean or anything but like, first thing I say to her after we haven't talked in so long and she says she misses me is calling her a liar

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    Default Re: She says she misses me? How to reply?

    I see what you're saying. And that's a good point. Usually I say that because the women I talk with know that I like to fuck with them. If this is not the dynamic you set up with her then it's probably best to not use it. But whatever you use, don't send something that requires a response. However, it can imply one.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: She says she misses me? How to reply?

    I understand, alright I replied to her, I will post as soon as she answers back.

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    Default Re: She says she misses me? How to reply?

    ok heres what happened, Her: Oh my gosh, I'm sorry! All of my friends came back to town last night so we had a little fun at the bars... Im really embarrassed!"

    So now how do I respond to that?

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    Default Re: She says she misses me? How to reply?

    Reply back with, " Hey dork butt, you should be embarrassed."

    like the previous message to her it shows you aren't expecting a message back but you are challenging her.


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