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    Default Help with chick on okcupid

    So I messaged this chick yesterday, and i've been getting good results so far.

    This is what I sent...

    me: "How's it going? I'm Nick.

    (Over here, I posted my own variation of an opener that I don't want to give away. Sorry)

    ps. Bonus points on liking Revenge. Awesome show."

    her: "It's going well How about you?

    mmm...berries.

    Thanks! Do you like that show?"

    me: "Amazing as amazing can be, which I constantly strive for. And I love Revenge, along with other shows on ABC like Grey's Anatomy and Scandal.

    And since you picked berries, that means berries= fruit= you being loving and caring "

    her: "Ah good shows.

    lmao.. that's funny.. because I don't know if that describes it.. it might. Not sure."

    me: "Well, was I about right on the mark? If not, do I at least get a...B for effort? :P"

    her: "I'm not sure.. you'll have to decide for yourself.

    and an A for effort."

    Is this basically the time to ask for a Number Close? Or do you guys feel it's too soon? Her last reply basically gave away that she's sort of interested at the very least.

    Thank you!

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    Default Re: Help with chick on okcupid

    Hmm, Im kinda confused on your convo, im guessing youre talking about something on her dating profile? Anyways, seems like some good conversation, and whatever the berries deal is all about it kinda seems like it is a different subject from this tv show or whatever it is, so she kinda seemed overwhelmed by everything, maybe talk a little more to raise her interest, right now it just seems like friendly conversation

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    Default Re: Help with chick on okcupid

    Yeah, I posted my own variation opener, and then talked about a TV show she liked from her profile (to show that I actually read her profile).

    So after her last reply, in which direction do you recommend I go to?

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    Default Re: Help with chick on okcupid

    Oh ok I see, well like I said, it would be good to raise her interest more, and once it seems like you have been talking for a while there, say, "Hey well I have to run some errands, but give me your number and Ill text you" or whatever, short sweet and to the point, showing her you have things to do and your telling her to give the number, not asking

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    Default Re: Help with chick on okcupid

    Go back at her one more time with, " You probably give every guy an A"

    Let her qualify herself. Her response will let you know if she is ready give her number or if you have to build more comfort.

    I think she is ready to give you her # but taking another run with one more message will confirm that.

    Give us an update as to how it goes down.

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    Default Re: Help with chick on okcupid

    Thanks, Dave!

    I'll reply with that and see how it goes. I'll update this thread.

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    Default Re: Help with chick on okcupid

    Well, this was her reply

    me: "Hmm...you probably give every guy an A."

    her: "umm no...

    kinda offensive. Don't know if you meant it that way. Just pointing it out"

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    Default Re: Help with chick on okcupid

    Flip it on to her, " Do you always take things so seriously "

    Use the winky face. let her back track and again she has to qualify herself. She is doubting how you meant that last message.

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    Default Re: Help with chick on okcupid

    Another update, I'll reply to her tomorrow (don't want to appear like I'm waiting on the site the second she replies)

    Me: Do you always take things so seriously?

    Her: "Can't really tell tone on this..

    But maybe, I don't know. I'm silly, but I've got a serious side"

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    Default Re: Help with chick on okcupid

    Message her:

    "You know how you can tell the tone of a message? It's a super,duper, top secret but I am willing to share it with you..... As long as you promise not to share that secret with anyone. Promise?"

    When she asks, " how?"

    Tell her, "There is a device out there that I have discovered that allows messages to be communicated by voice, no matter how far apart 2 people are in distance.It even allows you to share pictures. It's called a phone.. What's your #? "


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